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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

By: Connell Barrett
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 Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!Copyright Heartcast Media Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
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  • 47 Flirting Tips So You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say with Women

    47 Flirting Tips So You’ll Never Run Out of Things to Say with Women
    Apr 16 2026
    If you struggle with what to say and how to flirt, help has arrived. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett gives you 47 simple, actionable ways to spark attraction with women, without cheesy gimmicks. Learn how to be playful, authentic, and confident, so you’ll never run out of things to say—on dates, over text, or when approaching women.


    WANT TO BECOME AMAZING AT FLIRTING? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN ABOUT HIS 1-1 COACHING: DatingTransformation.com


    NOT SURE HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”:Email “Free Book!” to: connell@datingtransformation.com
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    36 mins
  • The “Slime Effect”: 7 Flirting Mistakes that Creep Women Out—and What to Say Instead

    The “Slime Effect”: 7 Flirting Mistakes that Creep Women Out—and What to Say Instead
    Apr 14 2026
    Do you feel clueless about flirting, and worry that one wrong move might creep her out? On this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett breaks down 7 flirting mistakes that kill attraction, including one psychologists call the “Slime Effect” (11:12). You’ll also learn exactly what to say to confidently create chemistry. Listen now.

    DO YOU STRUGGLE WITH HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? BOOK A FREE CALL TO LEARN HOW CONNELL’S 1-1 DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: DatingTransformation.com
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    42 mins
  • You Like Her, But You’re Trapped in the Friend Zone. Flirt Like This to Escape (Live Coaching with Matt)

    You Like Her, But You’re Trapped in the Friend Zone. Flirt Like This to Escape (Live Coaching with Matt)
    Apr 7 2026
    Things seem to be going well—and then she says, “You’re nice, but I don’t feel a connection.” Friend zone. In this live coaching session of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes his client Matt to work through this exact issue. Connell breaks down how flirting actually works and shares a simple fix you can make so women start seeing you as more than just a friend.

    BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH DATING COACH CONNELL BARRETT TO SEE HOW HIS 1-ON-1 COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:DatingTransformation.com
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    42 mins
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