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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett

By: Connell Barrett
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Yes, you can get a great girlfriend! And dating coach Connell Barrett will show you how to confidently connect with women by being authentic—no creepy pickup moves needed. On the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, Connell offers the kinds of tested dating tips he shared in his bestselling book, Dating Sucks but You Don’t, and in his TV appearances (GMA, “Today.”) In his 12 years as a coach, Connell has helped thousands of men in 17 countries find love. No wonder Psychology Today named him “America’s top dating coach for men.” Connell personally faced—and fixed—every common dating problem, from not knowing how to flirt to dating-app struggles to low self-confidence. After meeting his dream girlfriend Jess, Connell now helps nice guys and gentlemen find love by dating with “Radical Authenticity.” Ready to meet your soulmate? Join Connell and his expert guests every week for game-changing advice. Carpe date ’em. Seize the date!Copyright Heartcast Media Hygiene & Healthy Living Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences
Episodes
  • “The Best First Date of My Life” — How Tony Learned to Flirt and Won Jennifer Over

    “The Best First Date of My Life” — How Tony Learned to Flirt and Won Jennifer Over
    Jun 26 2026
    If you’ve ever wondered, “What do I say? How do I flirt?” Tony’s story will resonate. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett talks with Tony, a divorced dad and software engineer who had some flirting breakthroughs that helped him win over Jennifer. If Tony can go from struggling to talk to women to finding his dream relationship, so can you!

    NOT SURE HOW TO FLIRT ON DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.com

    GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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    29 mins
  • 5 Flirting Moments that Broke My Brain (and Rewired What I Thought Was Possible)

    5 Flirting Moments that Broke My Brain (and Rewired What I Thought Was Possible)
    Jun 23 2026
    When you get good at flirting, you’ll be shocked by what you can achieve. Dating coach Connell Barrett sure was. Once a dateless introvert stuck in the friend zone, he never imagined his love life would include instant make-outs, fun flings, and beautiful women pursuing him. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell shares five brain-breaking flirting moments that shattered his dating limitations. What might be possible for you?

    03:11: “You Want Me to Approach Her? She’s with that Guy!”

    09:39: Three First Dates, Three First Kisses

    18:20: Why So Many Women Prefer Older Men

    24:54: The Date that Truly Broke My Brain

    36:17: How to Manage a Ménage: It’s as Easy as One, Two, “Toi”

    NOT SURE HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN YOU FIND ATTRACTIVE? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.com

    GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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    43 mins
  • 7 Days, 7 Online Dating Openers: What to Write on the Apps Every Day of the Week

    7 Days, 7 Online Dating Openers: What to Write on the Apps Every Day of the Week
    Jun 18 2026
    Imagine never struggling to come up with a good online dating opener. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares seven proven, playful dating-app openers that you can use every day of the week! You’re about to learn what to message women, and how to keep the conversation flowing after they reply.

    NOT GETTING ENOUGH DATES? BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION WITH CONNELL: DatingTransformation.com

    GET A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”: Email: connell@datingtransformation.com (Write “Free Book” in Subject Line)
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    25 mins
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