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What if being a “good woman” means giving up the life you actually want? Iranian-born world biker, fashion designer, and mother Maral Yazarloo refuses to accept that.

Her belief is simple: you can love your family without losing yourself.

In this powerful episode of Flirting with a Fish, Maral Yazarloo challenges society’s expectations of women, motherhood, freedom, and identity. From riding motorcycles across the world to raising her daughter according to her own values, she opens up about why she refuses to live by society’s rules or feel guilty for choosing herself.

Maral is not trying to break stereotypes. She simply refuses to let them decide how she lives.

We explore what it means to be a mother and still pursue your ambitions, why women are conditioned to be “good girls,” and how financial independence can give women the freedom to make their own choices. Maral also shares her experiences growing up in Iran, being arrested for wearing nail polish, navigating cultural identity in India, and living with the emotional weight of events affecting her home country.

She speaks candidly about motherhood, personal boundaries, social media, raising children in a world driven by attention, and why your child should learn that their own dreams and happiness matter, too.

IN THIS EPISODE:
- Why Maral refuses to feel guilty for living life on her own terms
- Motherhood, motorcycle riding, and the pressure on women to sacrifice their identities
- What does it really mean to be a “good girl”?
- Why women need financial independence to have a voice
- Growing up Iranian and the experiences that shaped her perspective
- Social conditioning, fashion, identity, and refusing to fit in
- Why she chose to keep parts of her pregnancy and family life private
- How to move forward when fear, uncertainty, and pain hold you back
- Why being kind matters more than being obedient
- The importance of teaching the next generation to choose their own path

CHAPTERS
00:00:00 - Trailer

00:01:52 - How I Became a Rider

00:04:43 - Living Life Without an Agenda

00:06:51 - Learning to Put Myself First

00:09:05 - The Problem with Society's Agenda

00:10:04 - The Iranian Good Girl Stereotype

00:10:44 - Struggling to Fit into Society

00:13:58 - The Dark Side of Celebrity Culture

00:15:55 - My Core Values for Life

00:17:42 - How I Push Through Hard Times

00:18:53 - The Cost of Self-Sacrifice

00:19:51 - Why I Don't Understand Drama

00:20:26 - My Relationship with Money

00:21:55 - Desi Firangi: My Identity Crisis

00:24:12 - The Truth About Social Media Posts

00:25:48 - What Pain Really Means

00:27:50 - What It's Really Like Being Iranian

00:32:16 - Why I Chose to Live in India

00:33:19 - Take Full Responsibility for Your Life

00:37:08 - The Horrific Rishikesh Incident with My Friend

If you've ever felt pressured to fit into society's expectations of what a woman, mother, wife, or daughter should be, this conversation is for you.

💬 Join the conversation: What does being a “good woman” mean to you? Should women ever have to feel guilty for choosing themselves? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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What if becoming a star actually means having fewer choices?

In this episode of Flirting with a Fish, Bollywood actor and writer Aditya Rawal talks about the difference between being an actor and becoming a star, and why fame can sometimes limit the freedom to experiment.

Aditya Rawal opens up about choosing unconventional characters, playing morally complex roles, and why he believes actors should understand their characters rather than judge them.

The conversation also explores how cinema theatres are losing their dominance as audiences move between OTT platforms, YouTube, social media, creators and streaming.

From acting and stardom to fame, power, ambition, fear and AI, Aditya shares an honest perspective on what it really means to build a long-term career as an actor.

He also talks about his work in Faraz and Daldal, character preparation, researching difficult roles, addiction, theatre and the connection between writing and acting.

What is real power? Does having more fame actually give you more freedom? And would you rather be known as a star or remembered as a great actor?

If you love Bollywood, Indian cinema, acting, filmmaking, storytelling and behind-the-scenes conversations with actors, this episode is for you.

Podcast Chapters

00:00:00 Trailer
00:01:51 How He Chooses His Roles
00:05:58 Losing Dominance of Cinema Theatres
00:07:18 Limitations of Being a Star
00:08:08 Star vs Actor
00:09:40 Judging the Character
00:11:09 Obsession for Work
00:11:46 What Scares Him
00:12:58 What Is Power?
00:16:42 What Is Ambition?
00:20:30 What Is Addiction?
00:21:58 Doing a Character With No Reference

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Why does India’s education system keep changing with every government? And why is meaningful education reform so difficult to sustain?

In this episode of Flirting With A Fish, Gitanjali J Angmo questions the way education works in India from primary education and assessment to political influence, changing education policies and the challenges of building long-term reform.

We explore whether India’s education system is actually preparing children for the future, or simply continuing an old model focused on marks, degrees and conventional careers. The conversation also looks at the role of parents and teachers, and why education at home and in the early years can shape a child’s entire future.

But this conversation goes beyond schools and classrooms.

We discuss Hindu traditions, Hindutva, religious division, Indian philosophy, parenting, Swadharma, career choices and the pressure that pushes children into the same competitive race for success.

And then comes the bigger question: What happens when AI changes the jobs our children are preparing for?

As artificial intelligence reshapes the future of work, should education focus less on memorising information and more on independent thinking, self-understanding, creativity, intuition and human abilities?

Ms.Gitanjali also explores why parents may need to rethink how they define success, why children should have the freedom to discover their own path, and how the idea of Swadharma offers a different perspective on education, purpose and career.

This is a deeper conversation about India’s education system, education reform, children, parenting, Indian traditions, AI, employment, career choices and the future of learning.

Podcast Chapters-
00:00:00 - Podcast Trailer
00:02:09 - Questioning Hindutva
00:04:14 - Navratri vs Roza
00:05:32 - Wonder Why Hindus Abandon Their Own Traditions?
00:08:03 - Who Benefits From Religious Division?
00:10:47 - How We Failed In Primary Education
00:11:58 - Why Education Should Never Be Political
00:12:59 - India Is Not Poor, We Have Poor Minds In Power
00:14:16 - How Our Own System Is Exploiting Us
00:15:43 - What Does Our Education System Really Focus On?
00:23:46 - What Is True Success? Understanding Swadharma
00:26:29 - Why Parents Need Education First
00:29:21 - The Flaw In Our Assessment System
00:32:16 - How To Challenge Your Fear
00:35:33 - What Should India Fix First: Education or Employment?

Watch the full conversation and decide for yourself: what should India fix first education or employment?

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