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  • By: Traver Boehm
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Summary

If you're looking at this book for you, I'm sorry for what you're experiencing.

You now know heartbreak is an exquisitely painful concoction of:

  • Constant nausea
  • Obsessive thinking
  • Crushing depression
  • Stabbing pain in your heart
  • The now lovely potential of having your entire day decimated in an instant
  • Betrayal, groundlessness, and fear  

Quite literally, heartbreak is a personally prescribed hell. Trust me, like you, I know it well, and wouldn’t wish it upon my worst enemy. 

No book can take this pain away for you, and anyone who says they can is flat out lying. Yet, while the pain may feel like an emotional death sentence, it can be quite the opposite.  

I believe heartbreak, as god-awful and gut-wrenching as it is for you, can actually be the greatest opportunity ever you've ever been handed - a gift wrapped in razor wire and sh-t, but a gift none the less. Why? 

That's what it was for me, and what I'm going to turn it into for you. The pain you feel right now is the catalyst for growth and development like you've never experienced, fueled by the exact awfulness you now believe is your new normal.  

After using the two-and-half year odyssey of my own divorce to very publicly change every aspect of my life, something interesting began to happen - people just like you started reaching out to me and asking how you could do the same. People like you who wanted to not only survive their situations but also use them to do all manner of amazing things like: 

  • Lose weight
  • Quit smoking
  • Get sober
  • Start businesses
  • Or rebuild their entire lives  

When a close friend had her husband leave, I made the commitment to speak with her for 90 straight days, telling her exactly what I wished someone had told me the moment my own wife walked out.

Every morning, I'd send her an email with a story from my own "hellacious" experience, giving her something inspirational to focus on and an action step to get her from heartbroken back to thriving - as fast as possible. 

Those letters were then forwarded to thousands of people in your exact situation, navigating the darkest chapter of their lives. 

My goal was simple - to get her just a little bit stronger each and every day, and it worked. And worked. And worked. 

This book is those exact letters, compiled for you, with zero punches pulled. The raw truth of my experience. The truth of what you're now facing with no bullshit, plus the best ways to survive, revive, and then thrive. 

Here's to you. Getting past today and on to tomorrow. 

You will rise, one morning at a time, making yourself one day stronger.

©2017 Traver H. Boehm (P)2020 Traver H. Boehm

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Loved this so much I’ve bought the book!

A really refreshing perspective on separation and divorce. I usually read books written by women on the subject but this was a new way of looking at the whole sorry thing. Thanks Traver 👍

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Just listening to someone whose been through it …. helps

There’s no sugar coating a divorce, it’s not nice. I’ve been through 36 months of hell and when you have kids it’s another level, keep your focus on them. Notwithstanding the endless rounds with lawyers who pit you up against each other, the hours you just lie there trying to apply some logic to this maelstrom of emotion, you will get through this. Binge this book, then listen again and again as it will make sense at different times in the process as your head starts to clear again. In reflection the support for men is pretty bad as the internet is full of help for women where it’s typically assumed that they are the victims yet if your like me where I was left wondering where it all went wrong like other guys I know, this book will help. I’m walking out with both my kids side by side in our new house where we have a second shot at life. She did me a massive favour although it took me a long time to see it that way.

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Help when I needed it

When I found out I was getting a divorce I had no idea what to do. This book has given me a sense of direction and helped me work on myself and begin to feel happiness again. Thank you Traver

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Feels like a friend

For those times when you've exhausted your friends and family but still need a friend to help you pick up the broken pieces of yourself and put them back together in perhaps a new way.

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You're F@&*ing Awesome!

Going through divorce is not an easy journey, for me, probably you too, it is only part of my journey and the problems that attach to this process. This book really helped me, I just wished I'd found it sooner. I'm a year and a bit in to my divorce and the many ideas and scenarios Traver discusses heave helped no end. I hope you get Lucas Traver, I really do, I know your pain. Stay strong,

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