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Summary

Would you like to learn how to quickly overcome shyness? Would you like to improve your social skills, confidence, assertiveness, and self-esteem?

Master becoming a more confident person in your relationships and work with simple, effective, and fast steps.

“Many books have been published in this field, but this is the only one I would ever recommend to people.” (Bradley Polston, author and speaker)

This best-selling guide, recently updated for 2020, has helped countless people around the world to become more confident and finally discover the solution to shyness and social anxiety.

“A fantastic concise guide, allowing the sufferer to get help instantly!” (Vancouver Today, March 2020)

The book contains practical ways to increase your confidence immediately as well as a clear step-by-step process to ensure your social anxiety and shyness is eradicated forever.

“....which is why we have no hesitation in recommending this book to anyone affected by shyness and social anxiety related issues.” (Laura Tinsley, Sydney Times)

©2018 Michelle Butler (P)2018 Michelle Butler

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"An excellent, useful and realistic guide to overcoming shyness and social anxiety forever." (The Guardian)

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More sociable now.

Been thru this book a few times now and I have found myself more willing to engage in social situations and more "successful" when I do.

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Helped me

I definitely feel this book helped me a lot with my shyness and confidence issues.

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More confident

Since getting this book last year I am finding myself to be more confident and less shy / scared.

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More confidence

Got the book two weeks ago - two weeks later I am a new person.
Really.

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Great for shyness

I got this more for shyness than "social anxiety" but I was surprised to see how much both conditions cross over.
Felt I got help. Honest help.
Now its up to me to use what I have learnt.

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  • 07-12-19

Good for the shy person.

I hate being shy, had issues with it for many years, therefore I am very grateful to finally have found a book that ACTUALLY helps.

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Shyness almost completely gone

I got this book a while back but only leaving a review now. I felt the need to as I have had several people very close to me saying how much they have noticed a change in me in recent months.

I am more confident, improved self esteem, less shy, better in social situations and ultimately happier.

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waste of time

waste of time, nothing new. better buy something else . there are also good books on the market

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  • 18-09-18

Helped me so so much.

I am writing this review mostly to say thank you to the author. After trying various books and methods, this is the ONLY one that has had seen such a huge improvement in my confidence and self esteem, allowing me to *finally* let go of my shyness and social anxiety. I would recommend this book to anyone looking help with shyness, social anxiety, self esteem and general confidence in life.

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  • 25-10-18

Shyness no more.

Shyness is decreased, positivity and confidence and self esteem is INCREASED!!! Therefore I am one very happy customer.

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  • 23-10-18

Interesting.

I expected really good things and I was most definitely NOT disappointed. Narrator a tiny bit annoying at times but still very good. I got a lot from this book and it is helping my shyness issues everyday.

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  • 08-10-18

I can understand the hype

I got recommended this book by several people and I can really see why. Superbly written and narrated, easy to understand, not full of fluff and pointless information like some of these books. Shyness is a horrible thing and I have had it most of my life but so far so good, I am feeling a lot better and have a lot more confidence in my everyday life, thanks to everything I have learnt in this book.

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  • 27-01-19

Shy no more.

Great for dealing with issues of both shyness and social anxiety.
Confidence and general self-esteem has improved a lot lately.

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  • 08-11-18

A helpful guide

I would say I am more socially anxious than shy (there is a difference but they both cross over each other I guess). I got recommended this book from someone else and I am very glad I followed thru with the recommendation. A few sections of the book I have heard before but genuinely a lot of it was new stuff.

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  • 05-11-18

Much better than expected

Already had the kindle version which is good but I thought I would try the audible version too for something to listen to when traveling. To be honest it was only when I got the audible version that the book really came alive for me. It all made so so much more sense with someone explaining it.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 28-10-18

Such a help

I hate being shy, I hate how it negatively effects my life therefore I am very very grateful to haver finally found something that helps me. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU

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  • 31-05-20

The one

The one, the book to actually make a fundamental and LASTING change to my shyness. And its been a long long time coming.

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  • 23-04-20

Shyness REALLY gone.

Im a happier more confident and less shy person. What more can I say? Except audible wants me to write more lol, so I will say Cate is a great narrator, enjoyed her voice.