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Summary

What if being in love isn't a good enough reason to get married? What if dating isn't about finding "the one," but about serving the one who loves you most? Don't get married until you listen to this audiobook.

In The Sacred Search, Gary Thomas challenges you to think beyond finding a "soul mate" and to look for a "sole mate" - someone who will walk with you on your spiritual journey. After all, if you don't know why to marry, you won't know who to marry. The Sacred Search casts a vision for building a relationship around a shared spiritual mission - and making a marriage with eternity at its heart.

©2013 David C. Cook (P)2013 Oasis Audio

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So Informative

Im not longer anxious about dating. I feel better prepared for marriage honestly. Thank You

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a must listen for those who want to marry

narrator was great.
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a must listen for all those who want to marry

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Pretty hard hitting...

I enjoyed it for the most part...and precisely because it was rather negative in its outlook and that not uniquely among others I've read. Very powerful truths in there for good measure!

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  • Kudakwashe
  • 19-10-15

I need this book to regain perspective

Just reading this book when the wave of emotions is high allows me to bring things back into pespective. This is an amazing book filled with so much truth that washes over ones soul. instead of being drawn into the tide of emotional attraction it has allowed me to realign my appoach for pursuing a wife in a way that is pure and good. No more this business of running wherever the emotions go, rather i control tings ... Haha at least i hope i do.

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  • Pedro A Barillas
  • 24-03-15

Good practical book

Book uses great examples and imagery to drive its points. Makes you consider the future when choosing a life partner.

Only problem is if you search for a wife/husband in this manner you can kill any romantic notion.

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  • T. Smith
  • 14-01-15

A Great Read for both Singles and Couples

As a single woman who loves the Lord, this book reached me right where I'm at in life. I needed to hear the truth that resides within these pages (or my headphones as the case may be). I received so much revelation about my own values on dating that I need to work through with God before I enter into a dating relationship.

I also see how this book can be great for non-married couples, whether they're dating or engaged. It will challenge your relationship and make you look at one another with new eyes, which is needed before saying wedding vows.

I highly recommend this book, and I pray that it will be as much of a blessing to you as it was to me.

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  • olaitan fakinlede
  • 08-08-17

Thought provoking

This was definitely worth it. A good read for every christian and even more so for single Christians from troubled homes, troubled pasts and troubled marriages/family histories. It's a bold and courageous step in unlearning the toxic behavior.

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  • Jodi McCauley
  • 09-02-15

Perfect for all singles, no matter the age.

Loved loved loved this book. I just wish I would have read it prior to my first marriage. it is a MUST for all ages, regardless of circumstance, who are looking to get married. I've gifted three copies so far and I'm sure there will be more to come. read it!

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  • Jasmin
  • 22-08-15

Good and sobering advice

I liked the fact Gary didn't candy coat the reality of marriage and the fact that most people don't choose wisely. Most of the world will tell you you must be in love and how important sex is but marriage is much more than that. It should be based in friendship as well- supporting one another and helping each other fulfill a purposeful mission. Looking for someone of good character was emphasized rather than worldly attributes. This is one of the most realistic and practical Christian books for singles looking to get married out there.

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  • Troy Hoover
  • 01-10-18

Good Narration, but Not Written for Audio

This book would be much better utilized in print, preferably paperback.

The book is formatted in a personal discussion/coaching style format. You can agree or disagree with any of the author's points, as long as you reflect on what you believe about each chapter topic. Each chapter is fairly short, with a series of deep, personal questions for you to ask yourself and then spend time finding your answers. This personal reflection and processing is an intentional cornerstone of the author's purpose for writing the book.

What this means for the audiobook is that chapters finish quickly, and reflection questions must be listened to and rewoumd and listened to again. Otherwise, they would need to be rewritten for the reader to ponder them that way, and at that point you may as well have a print copy in your hand.

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  • Abby Kuhlmann
  • 11-08-18

Solid, wise advice.

If you are thinking you would like to start dating, read this book first. This book has valuable and logical advice that will draw you towards a godly search.

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  • Gio
  • 29-06-18

A great resource

I enjoyed this book and have bought a copy for my friends. it's a great tool for all areas of life as well.

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  • Ken G. Cub Cadet / MTD Dealer
  • 26-06-18

very edifying godly book for singles

Thoroughly enjoyed it!
Serious yet also humorous.
An invaluable read! I liked the review of the chapter with study points or questions.
Lastly, I always looked forward to listening to this author and his real life stories he implemented in nearly every chapter.