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Summary

Note to listeners: This is a summary and analysis companion book, not the original book Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay: A Step-By Step Guide to Help You Decide Whether to Stay In or Get Out of Your Relationship by Mira Kirshenbaum. It is meant to enhance your original reading experience, not replace it. We encourage you to purchase the original book as well.

This summary is to help you decide if it's well worth the time, money, and attempt of reading the original book. In this summary, Mira Kirѕhеnbаum drаwѕ оn years оf research and her work with rеаl-lifе соuрlеѕ tо help you mаkе thе right dесiѕiоn.

Mirа Kirshenbaum provides expert guidеlinеѕ thаt are thе key tо mаking аll уоur choices, соnсrеtе ѕtерѕ that уоu саn imрlеmеnt right nоw, and the ultimate wау tо dеtеrminе уоur реrѕоnаl bottom line - what you nееd tо bе hарру.

This remarkably inѕightful аnd рrоbing guidе оffеrѕ аdviсе thаt lets уоu ѕее thе truth аbоut уоur rеlаtiоnѕhiр, аnd with wiѕdоm аnd соmраѕѕiоn, it hеlрѕ уоu асt with thе соnfidеnсе of knowing thаt whеthеr уоu decide tо go or stay, уоu are doing thе very best thing. Kirshenbaum ѕауѕ thаt if you're in a rеlаtiоnѕhiр thаt seems bоth tоо gооd tо leave аnd tоо bаd tо stay in, уоu'rе in a state called relationship аmbivаlеnсе.

Include in this summary and analysis book are:

  • Key point of the all chapters
  • Author information
  • Overview of the original book
  • Clear and concise
  • And much more!

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This is one of those books that you’ll want to refer back to as it has a ton of great information.

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Really helped me resolve my relationship ambivalen

I have been ambivalent for years about my marriage. This book helped me understand that my marriage is too good to leave, and the reasons behind that logic. Now I can focus on making the marriage better for both of us in a more wholehearted approach.

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Incredibly straightforward and easy reference. You get what you think you're getting with this title.

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The audio goes up and down too much with the performance, making it difficult to follow quite often. When it goes up, it is pitch you, and when down, it is lower bass sounds that can be hard to hear.

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Required Reading

This book should be on everyone’s bookshelves. It was truly outstanding. Whether you’re in a happy marriage already or Single, it’s definitely worth a read and will help you.

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Gave obvious advice. Narrators voice didn't match tone of book. Wish she would of gave more determining factors.

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Fantastic

This book answered my most difficult questions and gave me the clarity and courage I need to move forward. Thank you.

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Breaks things down. Back to basics.

This book boils things down. It makes you see things that many of us overlook. Relationships get messy & reading/listening to this (while taking notes) really helps put things back into prospective. If you find yourself in a situation/relationship where you know you've 'got it' pretty good but... There's something keeping you on the fence.. (about making a decision on whether or not to stay). Read this.

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its hard 2 know what u want out of ur relationship

listsening to this book its clear what's best for a confused relationship LOVED IT! thx

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Didn't tell me what I wanted to hear. But good.

for some, this book will deliver some bad news. but it is thought provoking, well written

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  • 31-07-21

easy to follow/eye opening/info to the point

easy to follow/eye opening/informative and to the point. Really helps break down the mess in your head when you feel stuck and unable to make a decision on whether to stay or go.













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  • Tyra M. Andersen
  • 02-04-21

very helpful

this is a really great book shows you different things to think about and consider it shows you where you stand and it helps you to realize emotional things that you didn't know what's going on she doesn't tell you what to do she lets you figure it out by answering the questions yourself

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  • 02-04-21

perfect 👍👌

loved this book... I definitely will be listening to it again and taking notes. I love the fact that she gave recommendations for other books to help in particular situations at the end of the book. all in all I think this book is very helpful and I highly recommend it to anyone else struggling with whether to stay or leave their relationship.

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  • 02-04-21

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A helpful guide for a good diagnostic analysis in determining if a relationship should end or continue with work.

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  • 02-04-21

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  • Taylor B. Egger
  • 02-04-21

Really helped me resolve my relationship ambivalen

I have been ambivalent for years about my marriage. This book helped me understand that my marriage is too good to leave, and the reasons behind that logic. Now I can focus on making the marriage better for both of us in a more wholehearted approach.

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  • Roosevelt E. Buttler
  • 01-04-21

A big help

The book was a big help. Especially for someone like me who needs a way to clarify my decision. My only issue is the book starts off with stories about something she might do, or he might do to make u uncomfortable. Toward the end it is mostly things HE might do to make you uncomfortable.

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  • Angela R. Chandler
  • 01-04-21

Excellent material

I would love to see this book in a workbook format. I like the structure of the book because the author forces you to think and make decisions based on facts.

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  • Ida A. Maldonado
  • 01-04-21

really helped me think about a few things!

I love the diagnostic questions and how it starts from really bad.. get out now diagnostics to its annoying but you can work on this diagnostics. very thorough and helped me figure out things I can work on!!

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  • 01-04-21

I learned a lot.

I saw myself in some of the behaviors that make a relationship too bad to stay. I assumed it would be pro woman point of view but it's very fair on both sides. I realize I also have a responsibility for this mess I call a relationship. Good wake up for me.