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Stop People Pleasing!
- How to Set Boundaries, Start Saying No, and Take Control of Your Life
- Narrated by: Alex Freeman
- Length: 4 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Categories: Relationships, Parenting & Personal Development, Personal Development
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Summary
Feeling Like a Push-Over? It’s Time to Change That Using Powerful Tips From This Life-Changing Book - Stop People Pleasing! - by Derek Walker.
Ever feel like you’re the type most people easily take advantage of?
Do you want to become more assertive when it comes to establishing and honoring your boundaries?
Do you wish you’d have more people respect you for who you are?
If you said YES to any of these questions, you’re in the right place!
Telling people NO can sometimes feel like the most guilt-invoking thing to do. Sure, we’re all people-pleasers in one form or another...but what if your people-pleasing tendencies come at the expense of your own wellbeing?
Would you rather have people walk all over you?
Would you rather keep the peace and say nothing than assert your needs?
Would you rather stay meek and feel like your life is not your own?
Of course, you don’t!
That’s why Stop People Pleasing!, by renowned life coach Derek Walker, is perfect for you!
In this game-changing guide, people-pleasers like you will:
- Become better and do better for yourself and others by cultivating a deeper awareness of the psychology of your people-pleasing tendencies
- Set healthier boundaries around people and start living a happier, more empowered life that’s free from emotional manipulation
- Become more assertive when it comes to things you want, and learn to say NO when someone crosses a boundary without feeling guilty
- Be steadfast in guarding your boundaries and learn how to express yourself in a healthier, less destructive way
- Create a game plan for when the going gets tougher...even if you feel like nothing you do is working to your advantage
- And so much more!
Even if you’ve always felt like you couldn’t stand up for yourself, this guide will help you change that!
If you want to learn how to set boundaries, start saying no, and take control of your life, then don’t miss a chance to do better for yourself!
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- Joseph Riley
- 04-05-21
¡Muy bien hecho!
Me ayudó a darme cuenta de las raíces de lo que me hizo llegar de esa manera en primer lugar. Ya no tengo miedo de que nadie se enoje o se distancie cuando digo que no, y nunca soy desagradable por eso. Vale la pena su tiempo y dinero y es muy recomendable.
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- Isaac Clements
- 30-05-21
No más malas amigas
¡Gracias a esto, logré eliminar al último de mis malos amigos de mi círculo social! Puede que no parezca mucho, pero es un gran logro para una persona ansiosa como yo. Las técnicas compartidas por William Cooper son efectivas y fáciles de manejar, ¡así que logré implementarlas sin problemas!
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- Phoebe Mills
- 02-05-21
This is something that really works
Suffered from shyness and social anxiety for much of my teenage and adult life and i have tried everything from hypnosis to numerous books. This one was different. It had actual advice I could follow. Am i totally cured? No of course not, it is not that simple but i am a LOT better and feel i get better every single day. Narration was good but at times her voice could be a tad irritating.
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- Riley Akhtar
- 01-05-21
Fantastic book
This is a fantastic book for getting started on social skills.This is not your usual learning how to make conversation book. The author writes simply and is very encouraging. I now have a better understanding of conversational skills and am putting to use what I learned here. My only complaint is that this book, as well as many others I have read lately, needs better proofreading! Years ago you never saw mistakes in a book. Now I find mistakes all the time. What's going on?
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- Olivia Black
- 01-06-21
Extremely useful for people
I really enjoyed this book. This book is outstanding. It would be better with tips or tricks or exercises to practice. It is extremely useful for people of all ages and across the entire spectrum of shyness and social awkwardness. Overall a good book.
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- Robert L. Peyton
- 02-05-21
Knowledge is power
The focus, as always in his books is on practical exercises and techniques, rather than excessive theory or demonstrations of how clever and outstanding the author is. This is definitely a necessary, go-to manual for any kind of self-development work, whether you are a beginner or highly advanced in that area.
5 people found this helpful
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- Jim F. Love
- 02-05-21
Feel like a new person
It produced a rapid shift in my life in a short time. It can work for anyone willing to take consistent action. This book has helped me through a tough period in my life and I feel like a new person.
5 people found this helpful
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- Martin J. Shinn
- 02-05-21
Great tool
This a great tool to add to your arsenal of beat practice. the world around us can feed us the wrong information. Yet, this audio tool is a reminder how we need to plug into the right sources of information we feed our subconscious.
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- Judy K. Redondo
- 04-05-21
I really like this book. It has helped me a lot.
I really like this book. It has helped me a lot. This is the first self help type of book I’ve bought and it’s just the kick up the bum that I need to stop people pleasing and doing what I think people want. It’s made me more focused to change my life for the better and make decisions based on my wants and needs rather than other people’s.
4 people found this helpful
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- Jason E. Renick
- 02-05-21
Extremely useful for people
I really enjoyed this book. This book is outstanding. It would be better with tips or tricks or exercises to practice. It is extremely useful for people of all ages and across the entire spectrum of shyness and social awkwardness. Overall a good book.
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- Joanne L. Smith
- 02-05-21
Too Basic
I couldn't get through the book. Not because of narrator which was pleasant but the content. You must be living in a rock or have zero social skills to find it useful.
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- Paul C. Emerson
- 01-05-21
I really benefited to listen this audible.
The author explains everything well, starts off my explaining how to understand difficult people, how to handle difficult people, how to identify them and how to deal with different kind of people. This audible tells you the things you should and shouldn't do to guide you.
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- Ashley W. Barrier
- 04-05-21
Love yourself with this audiobook.
I purchased the book spontaneously dependent on the title. There were times when I was unable to put it down in light of the fact that such countless sections portrayed who I've been previously. I took in a ton from this book and I realize it will help each and every individual who can't deny others.
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- Blanche G. Widener
- 04-05-21
Thanks to this audiobook.
After I listened to this book, I learned a lot and came to realize something. I admit that I am a people pleaser and I can not really stop asking for favors from anyone, I do not feel that they can not always help me or do me a favor. Now I know my limitations in asking for favors from other people.
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- Nathaniel M. You
- 04-05-21
Love this with its cool content.
I would absolutely recommend this book to anyone who currently, or has in the past found it difficult to say NO to people. If I could go back to my 20-something self and read a book like this, I would be much further ahead in life.
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