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  • Wake Up, All Is Well
  • By: Anthony De Mello
  • Narrated by: Sunny Patel
  • Length: 2 hrs and 56 mins
  • 4.4 out of 5 stars (71 ratings)
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Stop Fixing Yourself

By: Anthony De Mello
Narrated by: Sunny Patel
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Summary

Take a look around and see if you can find just one completely happy person, someone at peace with themselves, someone who is fearless and free from insecurity, depression, lack, and worry. You would be lucky if you found one in a hundred thousand. The irony is we were born happy; we lost touch with it. We were born surrounded by a divinity of peace, joy, and love; we lost sight of it. It's as if we've been hypnotized to see what is not there and not see what is there.

We were brainwashed by society into building our life on the unquestioned belief that without money, power, success, approval, romance, etc., we cannot be happy. It's a false belief that has us constantly striving, constantly focused on what we don't have, constantly at the mercy of things and people as we try desperately to make life conform to society's formula for happiness, only to discover it offers nothing more in the way of a happy life than temporary respites from the fear of failing. 

Suppose there is a way of waking up from all that, where what is false and neurotic within you would drop with little or no effort on your part and your eyes would open to the reality of joy surrounding you. Here it is: Stop Fixing Yourself, the new book by Anthony De Mello that helps you rediscover the life you were meant to live.

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Amazing, easily one of my top 5 spiritual books

Succinct and honest explanation of how to become concise. A short book that has it all. I’ve listened to it 3 times now.

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Interesting pondering

I thought I'd get a bit more action in this book & there's a lot of refwrence to God. Interesting ideas though, good for bedtime listening.

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Not fantastic.

This book has some in great points and I got a few things out of it (thank you), however it doesn’t go into depth or really give a solution. It feels more like a trailer or a preview of an actual program/situation.

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Groundbreaking

Excellent book first I’ve listened to of this author but I will definitely read more if his works

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Kind delivery

The book explains the process in a kind and simple way. The reading has feelings, caring feelings. I will listen to it again, happily.

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10/10

Really liked it! He makes the right questions and gives good answers! So I say 10/10

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Important lessons in the self-help era

Overall a very good book, though the audio quality could have been better. I loved the message of how your life is better than you think.

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love it, very calming.

love this book, not sure Younger minds may get it. extremely calming. the last 3 parts will help you in difficult situations or with damaged people, DO not use excuse to stay in bad relationships. you can mend the damaged child.

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Disappointing

Personally I didn’t get much from this book; lots of vague ideas and suggestions which in my opinion are not applicable in the real-life world.

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Author died 1987. But he mentions smartphones!?

perhaps its just been updated for a contemporary audience. but I'm suspicious of who actually wrote this

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