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Start Where You Are
- A Guide to Compassionate Living
- Narrated by: Joanna Rotte
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Categories: Health & Wellness, Alternative & Complementary Medicine
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Working with these slogans and through the practice of meditation, Start Where You Are shows how we can all develop the courage to work with our inner pain and discover joy, well-being, and confidence.
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- Amazon Customer
- 13-08-19
Start where you are is a life changing book
I enjoyed this book very much and recommend it highly to anyone who wants to view life in a loving, inspired way. Pema is both enlightened and enlightening. Great work.
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- Natalie
- 21-02-20
Brilliant
Absolutely brilliant - best book I read in years! Rich charterers and impeccable story 👏👏👏 just brilliant
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- Tout en chantant
- 04-09-19
Pithy teachings, skilfully presented and beautifully read
Pithy teachings, skilfully presented and beautifully read. I strongly recommend it. Thank you very much
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- CHRISTINE
- 24-01-18
Start where you are.
Very easy to listen to, wonderful presentation of Lojong, now my favourite Pema Chodron teaching.
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- N.M. Lewis
- 30-08-21
This Book will change your life
One of the most powerful books I’ve ever read, I really can’t recommend it highly enough.
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- Anonymous User
- 15-07-21
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This book is excellent i highly recommend this read loved it. Pema is so profound
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- Al
- 06-03-19
I read this book on repeat
for me, lots of gems and precious nuggets are contained within. so much so that after the first listen through. I now listen at random and repeat when I can.
I love the message and the guidance shared within.
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- Sam Tuke
- 04-08-22
Feels conceited
Personally I feel this comes across as arrogant and unnecessarily lyrical. I don't like the mildly superior tone and wandering verbiage.
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- J
- 12-03-22
Better buy paperback
I haven't finished this book yet, but I feel like I would enjoy it more if I were physically reading it rather than listening to it so I could go back and forth more easily. I do, however, really like listening to it, it's quite relaxing, but then I don't concentrate on what's being said!
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- Susan V.
- 22-06-21
No thank you
I admit, I was having a hard time understanding exactly what she was trying to convey, but from time to time a sentence or concept would make sense to me, and I was committed to finishing this book hoping that more clarity and understanding would come to me as I went along.
However, when she talked about, and put the image in my mind of a puppy being stoned to death and described the fear and pain it experienced at the hands of a cruel and laughing crowd I had had enough. Even though I know this and worse happens in this world, I do not need to be haunted by this image in my mind.
I am returning the book.
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- Nicole Lamontagne
- 10-08-18
Purely clear explanations
Better than Trungpa. More accessible wording. Helpful personal examples. Loved every minute of listening. Good narrator too.
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- Janet Hill
- 12-01-21
This book is excellent for any faith!
Pema teaches that sharing our goodness and feeling empathy for our fellow beings is a gift! I would recommend to anyone looking for a change in their live!
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- Dustin
- 24-06-19
Best text on Lojong and Lojong
Besides maybe Norman Fisher's work, which I also found amazing. Pair and practice! Listen and repeat!
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- Sarah KW
- 05-02-21
Very lovely book
Joanna’s voice is reminiscent of Pema’s which is really nice. I listened to it in two nights and I’m about to start it again :).
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- cassie
- 29-07-20
pema is great and the voice seems to match her
I did like the voice well enough, however she was a little monotonous or boring. maybe someone with a little more enthusiasm for the words could sound better. Pemas book is Fantastic.
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- JFD
- 22-07-19
woo
I truly dare someone not to benefit from this. an absolutely fantastic must read book
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- Danielle Henderson
- 02-05-21
A whole new Perspective on life
I will definitely be rereading and listening to the book. I have struggled my whole life with self talk and how I treat others. The way she talks about befriending your emotions and being kind and gentle with yourself really helped me. But like she said it's walking the Wali and practicing it every day! Will definitely recommend!!
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- Eight Treasures
- 05-07-20
Rewarding
You won't feel disappointed, and if you do, here are the tools. Start working
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- Natalie Malay
- 24-10-18
Enjoy listening over and over again!
So much information! I really enjoy listening over and over again! I highly recommend this!
5 people found this helpful