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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

By: Ramani Durvasula PhD
Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
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About this listen

Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening?

Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again?

Does your partner make promises, only to break or betray your trust repeatedly?

Is your partner controlling or just plain mean?

Have you read every relationship book out there, practiced your communication skills, and still feel unheard or neglected?

Are you done with second chances?

Should you stay or should you go?

We live in a world of romance and rescue - where everyone believes love will conquer all, and the more we put up with, the more loving we are being. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes we choose mean people, and before long we are in so deep, we don't know whether we are coming or going. One day you want to fight harder, and the next day you are ready to pack it in, and the next day you want to fight harder.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.

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A clear , thorough , thoughtful, calm work providing absolute clarity on this subject . Thank you for your hard work Dr R

A game changing book

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This book provides helpful insights of the relationships with narcissistic partners. Great work! Thanks for helping people who are confused and struggling.

A very insightful book!

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I dowloaded this book after listening to Dr Rmani's book, 'Don't you know who I am?'. Both books are masterpieces written by a expert in this area; she's a university professor. I can not recommend this book highly enough. Narcissists are everywhere, essential reading for all of us who want to get away with minimal harm when interacting with narcissists.

A masterpiece

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After someone informed me that my partner may have has traits of Narcissism, I googled it & following listening to a few clips from Ramani, I had to find out more from her!
This book may have just saved my life & certainly made me see I’m not going crazy!
A must to read/listen! Thank you for helping me change my life!

Must read/listen!

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Very useful audio book, thank you Dr Ramani, especially for recording this yourself! One minor comment; as a male 'reader' coming out of a relationship I struggled a little as you refer to the male as the narcissistic partner throughout the book!

Very useful audio book, thank you Dr Ramani

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