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Men Don't Love Women Like You!

The Brutal Truth About Dating, Relationships, and How to Go from Placeholder to Game Changer
Narrated by: Clay Lomakayu
Length: 6 hrs and 11 mins
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Stop searching, this is the answer you have been looking for.

Why isn't your love life where you want it to be? Are you going to point fingers at the quality of today's men, blame the city that you live in, or come up with the defense that you don't have the energy to date? You pretend to be working on yourself, but you secretly hope and wish that Prince Charming will fall in your lap. You make the excuse that it's not you, it's the men, but there is something inside of you that knows the common denominator in all of your failed relationships was you! No matter if you're struggling to find someone new, trying to make things work with someone old, or currently confused about a person that's giving you mixed signals, this book will reset and revolutionize those relationships.

It's time to take control of your life and get the love you deserve. This isn't about online dating gimmicks, how to submit to male techniques, or any nonsense that publishers push down your throat to make money off of your desperation. This book holds the answers to your salvation, and it all starts by going within and learning the secrets to manifestation that goes well beyond the inconsistent Law of Attraction philosophy. If you want real results, provable results, and a life where you will never shy away from your greatness, then take up the Spartan challenge today! This is not a dating book for the soft, this is the gateway to power for the strong. Conquer your fears, take back control of your life, and awaken the Spartan within.

©2016 Viceroy Publishing (P)2016 Viceroy Publishing

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Ruined by the wrong voice! chapters missing!

The narrator is totally wrong for this book. He sounds like a 70 year old white man while the book is clearly written by a young black male. This dissonance totally ruins the point of the book.Also , 20 chapters from the original book are missing!!Returning and will buy the PDF instead. Very disappointed.

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Brutal but refreshing

This is a new take on Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. Throws romance in the wind and turns modern day relationships into a stint in the Colosseum. The uncomfortable truth is that it's really really accurate. The resounding message however is finding inner strength and confidence which is very impactful.

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Missing chapters

I bought both the kindle and decided to get the audio to listen to as I drive to work. Turns out there are a lot of missing chapters in the audio. I was confused until I saw some of the reviews on here. Will give 2 stars as there are some good points here. Just wish it was the full book. The narrator is quite good. He must be an actor.

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I'm so glad a found this book !!

This book is brutally insightful and has helped me to shift my thinking in a direction were i no longer focus on my insecurities and instead appreciate and embrace myself and all that i possess. This has been a game changer for me! and i really look forward to applying these tools/concepts in my own dating life. Big shout out to the author what an awesome creation this is.

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INSIGHTFUL. FOR EVERYONE NICE GIRL.

Honestly loved it. Had it on repeat like a mantra at least once a week just as a reminder. Ive learnt that being nice doesn't equal at your loss.

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Good ending, didn't like the beginning.

Good points towards the end. Crude at the start. Digest as needed, all issues mentioned may not relate. Likewise not indicative of all guys, guys approach to situations may vary depending on personality and up bringing. This book does not speak much for a mature guy who may have insecurities, needs and baggage.
This book is however, very useful for young persons getting on the dating scene dating men who are relatively carefree.

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This changed the game

A very simple and yet effective guide to dating in 2018. Especially for women who have been hurt or used as a doormat. Wish I had read it years ago. Very funny in places and soberingly honest in others.

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Ladies GET YOUR LIFE!

Such and accurate description of the the female mind for dating and self esteem in 2016! I've been on a journey for over 4 years that this book successfully surmises in just a few hours! So glad I read this book

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loved every inch of this book !

Wish this book was available to me whilst in my twenties I love it! A+

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Good Read

I enjoyed this book. I have shared it with the women in my life. Thank you for the push to elevate to SPARTAN.

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  • Renee H Chewning
  • 04-08-16

Wow .. could not get enough ♡

This is the best get real book I have ever read .. um heard read to me, I agreed with, related to , and was able to identify areas I needed to change in my life as well as I learned real rational for why. This will be my go to reference for all the women I try to help, a pre-requisite to life per say - loved it. Wonderful combo of Author & Reader ... Thanks

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  • GSW
  • 13-06-18

True and yet I doubt ALL men are creeps.

Most all addressed in this book is VERY true. What’s not mentioned, is women feel like men are all the same and boring too! This book is prime example, because this is so VERY typical male! Becoming a game changer doesn’t change a typical male into celibacy, maybe for a time. Marriage, parenthood, life, & a mortgage soon gets boring. Then most men seek a new thrill, a new no strings attached “pu**y”, and the girlfriend experience. If this wasn’t so, the divorce rate wouldn’t be so high. So I ask myself, why bother “Spartaning up” if all your going to do is capture this typical, boring, playing, cheating, male? Don’t get me wrong, it’s a good, enlightening book. It solidifies not giving a “f**k” truly drives men wild, but also truly make it your state of being. Because really girls, we want better out of life than all the guys listed here.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 02-08-16

NOT EVEN 30MIN IN AND ALREADY I'M WRITING A REVIEW

OMG!!!!! THIS IS THE BOOK!!!!!!!!! the whole time I was like 'wow wow wow'. Please girls please listen listen listen to this! So honest. And if you want male advice get it from a man. its so modern but all can understand! Its not just dating advice its much much much eeeper. i never ever write reviews but i had to for this one!

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  • Marilynn17
  • 31-05-18

Missing chapters

Interesting book but the audio version is only the first 7 chapters so about 20 more missing. Also I did not like the narrator.

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  • One Amazing Customer
  • 11-06-17

Confusing?

Have you listened to any of Clay Lomakayu’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

Never heard Clay narrate a book before but I think he did a great job

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This book started out interesting with very good points that made me ponder over several things but basically it was emphasizing that you should stand out above and beyond the rest and not be a basic biyatch as he calls it. Then he goes on to talk about what ALL women talk about and yeah I heard and maybe said it all. He tears you down and makes you feel like you are no one special. Then he goes on to tell you that you need to be a game changer which is fine...granted, he had my attention up to that point but in the end it sounded as if he was suggesting that you sleep with who you want to sleep with, pick up random men and act slutty with strict rules. The end of the book was disappointing!! unless I missed something but I did listen to it a couple of times.

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  • Thee Sublime Swan
  • 21-08-16

Prepare to dump your current situationship !!!

This guy tells it like it is and paints a picture that can't be ignored.Take this advice,dump the joker because he playing you and then shift your whole life with the information in this book.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 29-09-19

Missing chapters!

Book is missing all chapters after chapter 8. Very strange that Audible would allow this.

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  • Lune Pur
  • 07-06-18

Where’s Part III??

I have the Kindle book and the audiobook and he audiobook stops at Ch. 7. It’s wonderful, the content is great and the narrator rocks but I want to be able to listen to the full book! The bonus chapters are fab and are in GL’s Unicorn Delusion book, but where’s the Part III Of MDLWLY audio?

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  • Dana
  • 28-08-16

Enlightening

Very interesting. I listened to the whole book within a day. I would recommend to women struggling with dating.

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  • ladysavage
  • 24-08-16

Wow! Just wow! I wish I would have read this sooner!



I'm inly on chapter 5 but I just had to right a review. I'm just coming out of a 10+ year relationship as a place holder ( smh I know but you live you learn) and this books just affirms all the "crazy" thoughts I have about him, me and our relationship. Going forward I hope to gain some further insight on how to unleash my Spartan!!! Good stuff so far!

Note on performance: having Clay Lomakayu issue terms like "Thot" and "Bottom b***h" in that calm unassuming voice of his was GENIUS!!!!

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