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It's Not About Communication!

Why Everything You Know About Couples Therapy Is Wrong

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It's Not About Communication!

By: Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Narrated by: Dr. Bruce Chalmer
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About this listen

We're having problems communicating. Can couples therapy help?

Yes! Couples therapy can help—but not by teaching you how to communicate. If you and your partner are having trouble, the problem isn't how you're communicating. The problem is what you're communicating.

Dr. Bruce Chalmer's It's Not About Communication! shows you just what you need from couples therapy. You'll learn:

  • Why practicing communication rules and techniques is wasting your time
  • How a simple seven-word formula can guide you toward healing, growth, and passionate connection
  • Why a mindset of faith—not necessarily religious—is the key to successful couples therapy
  • How to decide if your couples therapy is helping—and what to do if it isn't
  • Why ideas open possibilities, and ideologies shut down possibilities—and why that's important for couples therapy
  • Why your couples therapist's advice is probably useless—and what you really need from your therapist
  • Why couples therapy is a lot like improv theater

Written in a relatable, easy to understand and sometimes irreverent style, It's Not About Communication! will help you get the most out of couples therapy. Give it to your couples therapist!

©2022 Dr. Bruce Chalmer (P)2022 Dr. Bruce Chalmer
Communication & Social Skills Conflict Resolution Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships Personal Development Relationships Witty

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