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Summary

This audiobook is for all of you beautiful women who are overwhelmed by a breakup, divorce, or who are in relationship limbo. This is your survival guide, breakup bible, and how to guide that will get through the weeks or months following a breakup with your head held high, pride and dignity intact. Every woman can reverse a breakup. It doesn’t matter what the circumstances are if you play your cards right from the beginning and learn how to shift the power back in your favor after a breakup. 

Women can learn how to obtain the relationships they want by earning the love and respect from any man they choose and have the time of their lives in the process. 

In this audiobook, you'll learn:

  • Why silence is golden... 
  • What a man secretly expects after a breakup...
  • Why a strong woman steals the show... 
  • How to prevent a man from losing interest...
  • Why women lose the battle of the breakup...
  • How to make him miss you...
  • How to handle your emotions...
  • How he broke up and what it says about him...
  • How to handle a breakup through Facebook and Twitter...
  • How to skyrocket your self-confidence...
  • What the biggest attraction killer is...
  • How to be on Mr. Ex’s mind...
  • What you should do to get him back...
  • Fatal mistakes you might be making without knowing it...

If you have ever let yourself fall to pieces, cried, begged, or pleaded for a man to take you back after a breakup, or if you have ever sought closure, you have never learned the art or the power of "No Contact". You’ll learn how to keep yourself in check to get your love life back where it needs to be. A must listen for every woman.

©2013 Leslie Braswell (P)2020 Leslie Braswell

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lame stereotypical advice

i thought this book would assist in offering coping mechanisms for a breakup. but i found the advice very cliche, narrowing all men down to cheating assholes. there are so many reasons men leave, and this book creates an idea that in your absence your man is calculating and likely putting his love/lust into another woman. i dont recommend this book to anyone dealing with an adult breakup. this book has no insight or depth.

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Dreadful narration

The contest wasn’t too bad. Although my view is opposite. I can say the narration of this book is just poorly and make the book sounds cheap without context and respect.

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Empowering!

Loved this audiobook! Bought it following a breakup and wish I had read it sooner. It's packed with practical advice on keeping your dignity as well as recovering from a breakup and feeling empowered in the process. It helped me cope emotionally, so much so that I kept listening to it for days and whenever I felt down. It's also beautifully narrated. Highly recommended.

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  • Utilisateur anonyme
  • 08-05-21

Misguided

While this book had a few practical points and offered some comforting words for those going through the pain of heartbreak, I think this book ultimately completely misses the point in how to manage and recover from a breakup. This book reinforces superficial dating ideologies and will ultimately stir the reader's insecurities. Phrases such as "men love the chase" and "he found someone else" may be true on the surface but in many dating situations there is much more going on with both sides. It also encourages manipulative tactics to win an (ex) partner's approval and rationalizes it that stating you "need to play the game." No. You don't. This may help you get short term "wins" but will not help you in the long term.

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  • Suzanne J
  • 19-09-20

YOU MUST READ

Encouragement to pull your shit together and use this time to become even better than you were. Face reality-how he would have and will act if he is REALLY in love with you. EXCELLENT EXCELLENT EXCELLENT!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 09-10-20

Wish I read this a year ago!

This is a must read for all woman. This book is empowering, logical, substantial and relatable.

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  • Samantha
  • 28-10-20

Must Read!!!

Loved it! I felt like I was in listening to a close friend giving me a heart to heart about my heartbreak. On those tough days I found myself listening again

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  • catherine miller
  • 13-10-20

Needed to hear this

Great and wise words. Definitely was easy to listen to and digest. I would recommend it to any women, whether they’re going through a breakup or about to date.

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  • Raichel White
  • 01-09-20

Words to live by

So clear and easy to understand when we are at our worst time and her word helped me get through it and know how to handle every situation

Thank you

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 27-10-20

Brilliant

I needed this...no bullshit...nothing like that...just straight up facts and good practical advice...loved it..loved it...thanks girl!

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  • Rakisha M
  • 01-08-21

Excellent

This audible book really has helped me develop strategies that will most certainly make the necessary changes needed to get exactly what I want.

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  • JANICE M NEWCOMB
  • 17-01-22

Hard truth at its best

I wish more of my friends would listen to this, really listen to it. I love that empowers women.

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  • Debra Monroe
  • 13-01-22

Awesome

Excellent,across the board!
Excellent advice, I hope anyone needing to hear this does! She was on point!