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How to Get a Man Without Getting Played
- 29 Dating Secrets to Catch Mr. Right, Set Your Standards, and Eliminate Time Wasters
- Narrated by: Dan Culhane
- Length: 2 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Categories: Erotica, Sex Instruction
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Summary
When it comes to finding a suitable mate for a passion filled, committed relationship, one of the things men want most in a woman is self-possession, or said another way, womanly poise.
When a woman lacks poise she generally gives too much of herself, and usually at the most ineffective times when dating a man. She is too lenient with men in the beginning stages of a new romance, and she's prone to compromising her standards just to keep a man in her life.
A woman with poise never chases or throws herself at a man, especially if he's pulling away from her. She also doesn't make things easy for a man by clearing her schedule "just in case" he calls or comes around.
This book was designed for women who want to go from being powerless to being irresistible to men. In it, you'll discover the secrets to having more confidence and power with men and dating as you learn the beliefs, attitudes, dating rules, "love habits", and seduction secrets of the high-value woman.
Here's what you're going to learn inside:
- The most seductive first date "good deed" that can capture a man's desire and make him desperate to see you again
- The number-one key to conquering a man's heart during the early dating stages (this is something most women only figure out after years of painful trial and error)
- How to get a boyfriend by avoiding a huge relationship-killing mistake most women make within the first few weeks of dating
- How to get a man to treat you like a top priority (instead of his plan B) once you start dating him
- How to maintain the "queen's composure" when men pull away and how to use it to make the good ones come running back to you
- The "dating rules" high-value women use to quickly eliminate players and find Mr. Right
- And much, much more
Get started right away and discover how to date like a high-value woman to get the guy without getting played.
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- Anonymous User
- 18-02-21
Well worth the time investment
Much better than I expected. I'll be listening again and recommending it to others.
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- Hilda
- 01-02-21
An example every female should inherit.
I read this book from beginning to end in one go. I love the fact that a man has written this in the context of how the right male can have a lasting effect and how a woman should hold herself . I like the old-fashioned values as it's how I was raised , this modern era of dating has stripped that unfortunately but I've hope that there are men out there that pertain to the notion of a gentlemen's quality.
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- Amazon Customer
- 27-12-20
Very good
I finished it in one day. It was very useful and insifghful, and it encompasses a sometimes needed reminder of better self esteem
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- Amazon Customer
- 02-01-20
Must read
Just what I needed to hear. I see where I'm going wrong, especially with the men that are not consistent in their behaviour. I have always tried to chase to make up for their bad behaviour, lose of interest. Very insightful.
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- Spencer
- 10-02-18
Not What I Was Expecting
I'm a man. I listened to this in the hopes of getting insights into women's dating strategies and challenges. The basic takeaway is that men will treat you how you let them treat you. Duh. Be a lady, set standards and if you're in it to win it don't comprise.
The "be a lady" advice was what I'd most expected based on his men's material. In the men's material, he gets into why this works and the psychology behind it. No such luck with this book.
"Set Standards" is good advice for anyone. He goes beyond that by suggesting what standards work best for finding a spouse. He also outlines some calibrated responses to seeing someone fall below the standards.
Now "if you're in it to win it don't comprise" is perhaps the best advice that he offers. Guys are happy to "not put a label on it," "not introduce you to his friends" or otherwise plan for the future. If he's not serious, be prepared to move on.
11 people found this helpful
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- Kim Bray
- 27-08-17
It really helped me understand my value as a woman
I learned so much that can help me in my current dating life and what to do and not do when dating.
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- Woody's view
- 13-11-17
The Author's Like The Brother You've Always Wanted
I love that "How to Get a Man Without Getting Played: 29 Dating Secrets to Catch Mr. Right, Set Your Standards, and Eliminate Time Wasters" makes you feel like you are having a casual chat with a big brother or father figure about dating. There's no fluff and sometimes he ensures he repeats important info he wants to get through. It is a great tool to use as a refresher.
#AUDIBLE 20 REVIEW SWEEPSTAKES ENTRY
6 people found this helpful
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- Anonymous User
- 28-12-17
Life Changing!
I’ve been listening to several dating books for women, each of them has brought value and change to my life, but this one left me feeling the best!
It has encouraged me to have more respect for myself, how to have a positive instead of negative outlook on disappointing dating experiences and most of all, I feel empowered and excited about dating. It’s easier now to walk away from men who are bad for me. Years of bad dating habits are quickly falling away with the discovery of this book.
I’ve suggested it to friends who also feel that the information in here is mind blowing. No gimmicks either, but pure, sincere and healthy advice. So glad I found this life changer! I’m glowing with happiness now with the motivation I found in this audiobook.
5 people found this helpful
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- Louise Douglas
- 06-08-17
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Mr. Bruce you book has taught me to become skillful when it comes to dating. I brought this book at a time in my life when I needed it the most, so thank you for helping me to become sharp when dealing with male suiters. you are awesome
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- Anonymous User
- 17-07-17
Great audio book
Great advice !. Very well explained and gave me a new positive outlook and dating as I was starting to get very discouraged. Thank you
5 people found this helpful
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- Lindsay D.
- 17-06-17
29 Great Standards Women Need! Great advice Bruce!
a must read for any woman who has ever wondered what she did wrong, more than once! total life saver! Ive listened to it twice, and just ordered another book by this author. I also recommend Matthew Hussey and his book get the guy, and secrets of the male mind.
10 people found this helpful
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- Louise D Herard
- 11-01-18
It actually works
I put his advice on actions and it actually works . Best book I ever read . Love it
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- Heather Effinger
- 28-08-17
Useful
Good insight when it comes to a relationship and how to express what to do in a few situations.
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- Amazon Customer
- 20-10-20
Aha moments
I just finished listening to this book. It's interesting and easy listening. Most importantly I really needed to hear it. I'm 48 years old, healthy, kind, attractive, fit, intelligent, independent, soulful....a great catch! Yet I have a history of repeatedly ending up with the same guy different circumstances. Beautiful men who are really into me initially and then quickly tell me they don't want a relationship, but pay me enough interest that I allow them to treat me like crap and get relegated into the "FWB" zone. I act like this is what I want too, breaking my promises to myself. I've even made "the list" twice and then ignored all my own boundaries and deal breakers. Never again! Some of the information in this book I already knew, but needed reiterated and the rest of it was so mind opening. While listening to it the guy I've been sleeping with for three months, who recently has been dismissing me & of course won't commit to me texted me, asking if I want to talk on the phone. I told him no, turned my ringer off and focused on myself. I'm a modern woman and I acknowledge that men and women are wired biologically; modern culture hasn't changed our nervous systems. It's time to retire the doormat and empower the Goddess to attract the man who is worthy. Ladies, check it out!
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