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Summary

Would you like to learn how to flirt with, date, and seduce women? 

Would you like to improve your social skills, confidence, assertiveness, and self-esteem?

Master becoming a more confident and successful man with simple, effective, and fast steps.

This best-selling guide has helped countless men around the world. Ryan Harris has been a leading voice of reason and advice for men for over a decade. Always determined to cut out the BS and nonsense, he produces information that is easy to follow, realistic to implement and most importantly has been proven to work. 

No silly false gimmicks, just solid and actionable advice! 

Topics covered include:

  • How to easily & quickly
  • Master the art of flirting
  • How to make a successful approach 
  • The skills to interact successfully 
  • Quickly overcome shyness 
  • Body language and how to use it effectively
  • Effective strategies for success 
  • Reading her cues and how yo know when a woman is into you
  • Moving it on to the sexual stage 
  • Flirt more, date more, seduce more
  • And much more
©2018 Ryan Harris (P)2017 Ryan Harris

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Good to listen to

Interesting stuff but abit repetitive but I think it gives a closer look at what to do and not to do when speaking to females

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Enjoyable listen and most importantly very helpful. Tried out some of the advice and whilst not ALL of it worked, a lot of it really did and i feel more confident and therefore more successful with women,

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Cover is awful!!!! HA

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Better with women

Better with women, online and in real life. Teaches u what to say, when to say it and HOW to say it

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More success

More success with women, not as shy or awkward - therefore thanks! Hoping my new "skills" (LOL!) will continue

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Best for seduction

Best book around to seducing women but also good if you want more longer term dating

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Fulfilment in life is just around the corner....

Good sound advice, not over complex but very useful common sense tips and reassurance that will be useful in any situation.

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Awesome resource

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Never been amazing with women mostly due to just not knowing what to say. I either get too scared or say the wrong thing. Got this book, felt a bit weird getting it at the start but after what happened this last weekend...well I am very glad i did. It worked. I feel GOOD and confident.

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Well written and good performance for narrator

Well delivered and great advice on the fundamentals of holding a conversation with woman.

Out of all the dating advice books I would highly recommend this and Models by Mark Manson.

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Finally it makes sense

Ive never been the worst with women but I am certainly far from the best. After going thru this book I finally have the confidence and tools to give it a go,..which I did at the weekend...to rather "fun" and rewarding results! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU TO THE AUTHOR!

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some good points but no conversation examples

quite generic info. Some good points. No conversational ideas for flirting. Just general attitudes.

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It put us men on perspective

Very instructional book, and understanding of what, we, men do wrong, and how to fix those issues.

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  • 14-03-18

Had great results

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I previously found it very hard to talk to women - and even harder to close the deal wether than be for one night or ask out on dates. I am a lot better now after going through this book. It does not turn you into Romeo love god overnight but personally i know i am having MUCH better “results” after getting this book! 5 out of 5.

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  • Stephen
  • 15-02-19

More success with women now.

Learnt a lot about how to deal with women, from the small chat and flirting stage right through to, well, the FUN stage shall we say! Great book! :)

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  • Yep Yep
  • 24-11-18

loved the book

loved the book. definitely recommend. helps you become more confident in yourself and makes you look at things from a realistic point of view when approaching women

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  • AC
  • 19-10-19

Horrible!

Been listening to this for an hour and it’s been nothing but straight up demoralizing, condescending, and it just tells you how much of a loser and loner you are, soooo negative! I had to stop it and do this review, thumbs down!

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  • Larry
  • 12-09-18

Great listen!

Like a lot of other guys, I loved this and picked up a lot from it. Ok so some of it I knew but a lot of it was different and more than anything it just gave me a lot of much needed motivation and confidence to do things differently.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 26-07-18

Great listen!

This helped me to finally got over myself and got the nerves, skills and motivation to go for it...and go for it did...to great results!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 14-07-18

5/5

5/5 as I have always been a bit shy and not great around women and this gave me motivation to get over this and go for it. Grateful.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 23-06-18

Yep, works for me

It gave me a lot of motivation to just go for it, helped with confidence issues, helped me know what to say. Also liked it was not all stuffy and serious, was actually real funny at times!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 02-05-18

Hilarious and effective

I liked that it was light hearted (and at time even hilarious) as well as really tackling the difficult subject of flirting - something I really needed help with being quite shy and awkward around women.

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