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Summary

It's okay to have needs of your own

You fell in love with him. But over time you've come to realize he's in love with himself - and you feel trapped. His needs, his problems, and his plans always seem to take precedence over yours. Dr. David Hawkins, director of the Marriage Recovery Center, offers a guide to help you identify signs of narcissism, understand how your loved one's issues are affecting you, and prepare a biblical game plan for freeing yourself to live courageously in light of God's love.

Whether the man in your life can be diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), exhibits narcissistic traits and emotionally abusive behavior, or has arrogant and self-centered tendencies, the emotional pain he causes you is very real. Discover the truths, wisdom, and grace you need to spark change in your relationship, set boundaries, and experience healing.

©2017 eChristian (P)2017 eChristian

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Very helpful to gain clarity and take steps towards a healthy change.

I have listened to this more than once. 🙂

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  • Krystal Pitts
  • 30-11-17

Life changing

Wow. No one can possibly understand what one goes through. To find a book that explains my life story, while equipping me to make changes in my own life that will forever change the course of my destiny and my children’s. Giving me my life back. I am getting stronger every single day! Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

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  • man this is the best game
  • 10-10-17

Outstanding perspective!

This book is a perfect match in every way to my experiences and I am shocked at how someone who hasn't experienced it first hand can portray such detailed truths in this writing. Been looking for a two sided approach to the solutions and this was it. Wonderful!!

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  • Julia
  • 26-05-18

The book I so desperately needed to read

I’m a Christian woman married to a “believing” man with lots of narcissistic traits. I’ve struggled to decide what next moves to make to keep myself and my children on a healthy path. I’ve been convicted about how I’ve been dealing with things as well. I wanted biblical perspective... and I got it here. I’ve read countless articles and books on the topic. But none have been as helpful, for me anyway. I highly recommend this to anyone struggling with narcissism in their relationships. It’s been eye opening to say the least. I have more clarity and a better take on what changes I need to make.

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  • Kendra
  • 26-03-18

Very well written! Educational!

Realized things about myself as well as my partner. Everyone has flaws. Together we are making changes for the sake of our marriage and family. Thank you Dr for the help.

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  • Verlene Calicott
  • 29-04-18

loved it

explained in a way that really radiated with me and gave me even more biblical profound insight to some issues I'm dealing with concerning my spouse and also myself. we are both accountable for our actions and reactions! I'm listening again.

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  • Aida Bohm
  • 29-03-18

Life Giving.<br />

I thank God in you, Dr. Hawkins. This book is life giving. Any mother ought to read it, so any daughter can be saved from this.

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  • 13-12-17

i felt truly understood

This book is very insightful, helpful, and great at actually laying out how to handle setting boundaries with these kinds of people.
Scapegoating, and Secondary abuse are REAL and now i have a name for them instead of thinking maybe I was overreacting when treated these ways!! my eyes have been opened more, for that i am thankful and am working on my voice.

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  • Rebecca sue
  • 23-11-17

support and inspiration

This book is very supportive and inspirational! The narrator is also a very good orator.

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  • andra_sn5
  • 17-07-18

Thank God for this book!

What an honest, eye opening book on narcissism and abuse. I related to so much of the content. I’m thankful that the author gave specific examples of behaviors and steps to take to change and get healthy. I also really appreciated that the author was not biased and considered multiple points of view. Highly recommend!

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  • Laura Hogan
  • 06-07-18

Optimistic!

Looks at this type of abuse from all perspectives. Helps you understand this abuse so that you can determine your plan for healing and whether it is repairable.