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When Love Is a Lie Audiobook

When Love Is a Lie: Narcissistic Partners & the Pathological Relationship Agenda

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Publisher's Summary

What is the narcissism epidemic?

When our partner is a narcissist, only those who've actually experienced the madness will ever understand what we're going through. When Love Is a Lie is a straight-up, tell-all book about narcissism in relationships that skips the clinical bullshit to focus solely on the personal experience. A narrative that holds nothing back, Zari Ballard's story will educate, enlighten, and empower you to evaluate (and fully understand) the mind-boggling dysfunction in your own relationship. Compare her story to your own and watch what happens. As it has for thousands of abuse victims worldwide, When Love Is a Lie is going to resonate with you in ways that no other book about narcissism ever has.

Any relationship involving a person with a narcissistic personality disorder will inevitably take a dark turn. We stay in the relationship thinking we can fix this person or love him/her out of their bad behavior but the truth is that narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths can never be fixed - not with love, therapy, or any magic pill. Life quickly becomes a roller coaster ride from hell without a harness and with Lucifer himself at the controls. If that sounds dramatic, then you've never loved a narcissist. If that sounds familiar, then this very special book may just change your life.

When Love Is a Lie breaks down the signs of a narcissistic personality and exposes the narcissist's way of thinking.

©2013 Zari Ballard (P)2017 Post Hypnotic Press Inc.

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    Anonymous 08/05/2017
    08/05/2017
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    excellent it was like listening to my own life with the narc peace and love day 1 of nc xxxx

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  • Joy
    13/03/17
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    "Greatfull to have found this!"

    This book has been beneficial for myself and my children. I have just started NC with my children's father. I have been living a lie for what would be16 years on March 25, 2017. I am desperate to make it this time! I have tried leaving him several times throughout the years! He always weasels back in right when I have climbed out of the pain, bewilderment and financial ruin he left us in. It's amazing how cathartic I felt listening to this book! In no way am I happy other's have and are going through the exact same abuse my children and I have endured but knowing it has been very validating! I am not CRAZY or a SICK BITCH!

    13 of 14 people found this review helpful
  • Mary H.
    03/04/17
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    "Excellent"

    This book is skillfully written and very much validates the odd and uncaring behaviors, actions, and experiences a person has while involved in a relationship with a Cluster B individual. It was both shocking and saddening to understand the truth as I drew the parallels and heard every thought I ever had about my relationship described in this book. Also, the narrater's voice and reading style were perfect and engaging. That was an added bonus.

    9 of 10 people found this review helpful
  • KateB
    09/09/17
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    "Good book"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes, I would, especially if it could be useful to her. But I would warn her about swearing.


    What did you like best about this story?

    I liked it being more of a personal experience book than an attempt of being scientific.


    What about Lisa Bunting’s performance did you like?

    Her performance was good, she has a clear, pleasant voice and is a competent narrator.


    If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

    I like the original title.


    Any additional comments?

    The author did a pretty good job on research about narcissistic personality disorders and outlined the most important points in a way easy for a layperson to understands. there is plenty of down to Earth advice how to get out of a pathological relationship.

    My main complaint is about certain repetitiveness and excessive use of swearing. Otherwise I would have given it 5 stars.

    I received this audiobook at no-cost from Audiobookworm Promotions. The gifting of this audiobook did not affect my opinion of it.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • Amazon Customer
    26/07/17
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    "Epiphany!"

    This book finally made everything click for me and gave me the piece of mind to happily move on and NEVER look back. Here's to a life time of NO CONTACT with my ex "N"! So genuinely thankful for this book.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • Love the Classics
    Pickens, South Carolina
    26/06/17
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    "It was like someone wrote about my life!"

    I am ashamed to say I rode the narcissistic roller coaster far too long. This book provides fantastic information that is helping my road to recovery. I read it over and over! The cursing in the book helps with my own anger. I really want to get to a place where I can put this behind me, and I am working on that. :)

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • Amazon Customer
    02/04/17
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    "Empowering, enlightening and inspiring."

    Zari touches anyone that has suffered at the hands of a narcissist. Brilliantly written and very insightful. Funny as well. A MUST read for anyone looking to escape the torment of a toxic relationship with a narcissist. It gave me the strength to go no contact. Best book on the subject that I've read so far.

    5 of 6 people found this review helpful
  • Ruth K. Cobb
    11/11/17
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    "Real talk, experienced based, non apologetic, !"

    Loved it, you will regret passing it by. Full of hope and relief. So soothing to get that I'm not a bad person..... I simply loved.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • SS BuyeronAmazon123
    16/10/17
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    "Extremely Helpful and Relevant"

    This was very relevant if your a woman in a relationship with a narcissist or narcissistic partner - it was right on the penny of what your experiencing - and its very honestly written and explained. Also has some real world advise and language that I not only enjoyed but helped keep me engaged in the book. Its like a friend is talking to you - I enjoyed this audible book, and it truly helped me break the ties to a narcissistic partner I had.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • LESLIE MOORE
    07/09/17
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    "so helpful.....a victims experience firsthand"
    Would you consider the audio edition of When Love Is a Lie to be better than the print version?

    not able to verify


    What other book might you compare When Love Is a Lie to and why?

    stop caretaking the borderline or narcissist


    What about Lisa Bunting’s performance did you like?

    very clear and i felt her emotions


    What insight do you think you’ll apply from When Love Is a Lie?

    i just moved out of the home i shared with my narcissist of 34 years......this book offered me someone else's firsthand experience and i could have written it myself.....i need to continually emerse myself in these books....it is sooo painful..i saw what i wanted to for a very long time...stop caretaking the borderline or narcissist is also very good as my daughter is an undiagnosed borderline...one day at a time i am moving toward my new life...since moving out i am holding to a no contact rule...i have less stress and one day at a time and with the LORDS help.....i will be free........thanks to the author for sharing all our stories...different names....same evil, purposeful person....look you straight in the eyes and lie.....that was soooo hard for me to accept...i never really knew him......his LOSS...


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Mae
    19/08/17
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    "Excellent story to share and very helpful"

    Zari is spot on describing what the NPD does to keep you in their web. I listened attentively and was amazed by her documentation of what the NPD does to trap you. Very helpful and thank you Zari for sharing you wisdom and compassionate take on what these disturbed people do to you. Thank you

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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