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Odd Girl Out Audiobook

Odd Girl Out: An Autistic Woman in a Neurotypical World

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Publisher's Summary

What do you do when you wake up in your mid-40s and realize you've been living a lie your whole life? Do you tell? Or do you keep it to yourself?

Laura James found out that she was autistic as an adult, after she had forged a career for herself, married twice and raised four children. Odd Girl Out tracks the year of Laura's life after she receives a definitive diagnosis from her doctor, as she learns that 'different' doesn't need to mean 'less' and how there is a place for all of us, and it's never too late to find it.

Laura draws on her professional and personal experiences and reflects on her life in the light of her diagnosis, which for her explains some of her differences; why, as a child, she felt happier spinning in circles than standing still and why she has always found it difficult to work in places with a lot of ambient noise.

Although this is a personal story, the book has a wider focus, too, exploring reasons for the lower rate of diagnosed autism in women and a wide range of topics including eating disorders and autism, marriage and motherhood.

This memoir gives a timely account from a woman negotiating the autistic spectrum, from a poignant and personal perspective.

©2017 Laura James (P)2017 Macmillan Digital Audio

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    Jill SG London 03/10/2017
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    "Fascinating, even if you don't have autism"

    I don't have autism (or at least I don't think I do), but I do have people in my life who have Asperger's (aka high-functioning autism).

    My friends and family with Asperger's are wonderful, intelligent, often successful at work and sometimes have lifelong partners, but most people, including me, simply do not comprehend some of their behaviours or challenges. And in many cases, I don't think they even do!

    This personal account resonates so much. I kept finding myself thinking, 'Oh yes, that's just what XXXX does', and then Laura often goes on to explain the WHY behind the behaviour.

    So it's not just a personal account. It's also informative, helpful and, yes, the cliched inspirational. The inspiration comes from the fact that Laura learns to accept and deal with the diagnosis, and that both she and those in her life learn that just because people with Asperger's do things differently, that doesn't mean it's wrong. In fact, it can be often enlighteningly right.

    This has certainly helped me gain perspective on my friends and family with Asperger's, but I also feel that it would help women who may not have Asperger's, but who have always felt slightly on the fringes of life, not quite sure why they don't fit in. So in that regard, it's not just about Asperger's so much as society's need to crowbar women into preconceived ideas of how women should act.

    Thank you so much for writing this, Laura!

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    Anonymous 27/09/2017
    27/09/2017 Member Since 2017
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    I loved this book from start to finish, enthralling and captivating it captured my attention from the very first sentence.
    Such a precise and detailed description of autism in adult women, thank you Laura James for baring your soul in this wonderful book.

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    Sugar T*ts 23/09/2017
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    "This book has been very helpful for me personally."

    Fantastically narrated and beautifully written. This book glimpses at some of the struggles women with autism can experience. I myself being a 40 something woman who is just realising why she has never been able to fit in with society, this book gave some light at the end of the tunnel. And the words of the author helped me explain to my partner things I've not even able to put into words myself. I can thoroughly recommend this to women and partners of women who are starting this journey themselves.

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    BrigFin 16/05/2017
    BrigFin 16/05/2017 Member Since 2015
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    "Brilliant"
    Where does Odd Girl Out rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    Best Ever.


    What did you like best about this story?

    So many similarities to my life. Found it quite comforting and unsettling both at the same time.


    Which scene did you most enjoy?

    Too many to write about.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Definately


    Any additional comments?

    I loved this book. Thank you Laura James. I now need to pluck up the courage to get a diagnosis myself.

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