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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life
- The Chump Lady's Survival Guide
- Narrated by: Laura Copland
- Length: 6 hrs and 36 mins
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Summary
Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity - but saving your sanity.
When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters - their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Full of solid advice that champions self-respect, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more.
Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.
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- Kat 😸
- 22-06-23
Brilliant- the plain simple truth.
Loved this book - Tracy describes clearly why and how serial cheaters take control. This book definitely helped me make sense of the drama and start healing.
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- 1witch3monkeys
- 07-02-24
Powerful Stuff
I would say that even if you are a "chump" (aka: betrayed spouse) going through an experience of infidelity and attempting reconciliation. This book has a powerful way of opening your eyes, empowering you, and helping you to identify your needs and feelings. A powerful listen.
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- Amazon Customer
- 11-06-19
Saved my sanity!
A must read for anyone in or following a narcissistic or unhealthy relationship, or anyone wanting to support those who are!
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- Dee
- 30-06-20
brilliantly supportive book
just brilliant. has given me a clearer perspective on my situation. knowing there are so many fellow chumps out there dealing with the same pain as a result of a narcassist and their actions provides much clarity.
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- Joan, London
- 11-06-20
A must read!
Found this author on Facebook a few days ago.
I have just finished listening to Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life. I can honestly say it’s one of the best books I’ve read. I can see why it has 5 stars.
I came to the conclusion that my husband is on the spectrum for narcissism 2 years ago and have been on a journey of self discovery ever since. This book did not disappoint and has added greatly to that learning.
Thank you Tracey. I love your honesty. Brilliant read.
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- Green Coral11
- 27-08-21
brilliantly narrated
great eye opening book on cheaters. Great insight and sense of humor. Really enjoyed the narration.
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- kelly-lou
- 05-12-20
amazing
brilliant read, exactly what I needed, have recommended to so many people, thoroughly enjoyed! xx
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- Mim
- 22-06-23
Better than therapy, my life line in the most difficult time
This book is a MUST if you have just discovered your partner is living a double life or you are with a manipulative person. Please save yourself and listen to this ! 4 years on and I still think it’s the best book I have ever read
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- London
- 23-04-20
Amazing
This book is amazing. I can't put into words how much I needed to hear this and how much it has helped me. It's like having the very best, honest and supportive friend. The author is on your side, but tells you the painful truth. Brilliant book!
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- Amazon Customer
- 23-03-23
You saved me!
Best book on infidelity I have ever read. It proved that it's not just me and I am not going mad. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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