• If Only He Knew

  • A Valuable Guide to Knowing, Understanding, and Loving Your Wife
  • By: Dr. Gary Smalley
  • Narrated by: Maurice England
  • Length: 5 hrs and 49 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • Release date: 24-04-12
  • Language: English
  • Publisher: Zondervan
  • 5 out of 5 stars (1 rating)

Regular price: £20.39

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Summary

With over 800,000 copies in print, If Only He Knew by best-selling author Gary Smalley has long been esteemed as one of the premier books on marriage for men. Smalley helps men understand their wives and meet their needs in order to establish a loving, thriving relationship that will last a lifetime.

Newly revised and expanded to reflect up-to-date research and the current cultural landscape for today's modern audience, this book is the perfect guide for husbands who want to love their wives and strengthen their marriages in a way like never before. Using humorous and touching illustrations from his own life, as well as case histories and biblical examples, Gary Smalley maps a blueprint to a better marriage that will have a deep and lasting impact on men and their wives.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying reference material will be available in your My Library section along with the audio.

©2012 Gary Smalley (P)2012 Zondervan

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  • Joe Davis
  • 12-11-15

Fallout after an affair

I've read this book and so many more like it.
It's very unfortunate that it took my wife having an affair for me to realize how important her needs were that weren't being met.
Now an affair is the decision of the spouse involved, but had a followed the advice in this book I am sure it would have never had happened.
Read this book, his needs her needs, love busters, and the 5 love languages and you will be well on to your way to understanding a woman's needs.

I was the guy who thought i didn't need to read this type of stuff. Boy was I wrong.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 22-04-17

Really wish I would have read this 3 years sooner

This book taught me so much about my bad habits and how they affected the woman I loved most. It's crazy how unprepared we are for what it takes to grow in a healthy relationship. I highly recommend this book to anyone struggling with someone they love.

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  • pele
  • 21-06-16

Great info

It opened my eyes about how to become a better husband and help my wife understand me

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  • James Calvin Tibbs II
  • 16-03-15

Mandatory for most Men

Loved it. Have recommended this book to several men in my congregation. Smalley breaks it down.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 19-03-18

I couldn’t have said it any better myself!

I couldn’t have said it any better myself. Nice to know I’m not alone on this journey.

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  • Martelli
  • 09-03-16

Practical advice

This book is amazing, I especially like that the author put his personal life in the lines, he truly shows that these things did not come by chance, but by failures, errors, and practical lessons he learned over many years. I will do my best as a husband to apply these principles in my marriage, and I will watch our marriage bloom. I encourage you from a man to a man to take the time, listen and apply the lessons in this boom

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  • Jose
  • 04-05-15

Introspective

It help get out of my defense mode and show a better version of myself
I was about to quit listening around chapter 5 when it made the click

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  • Joshua & Michelle
  • 11-12-12

Helpful Information

If you could sum up If Only He Knew in three words, what would they be?

Christian, Spiritual, Relationship

If you’ve listened to books by Gary Smalley before, how does this one compare?

Among the best of his works

Which scene was your favorite?

Points made about communication and expectations

What did you learn from If Only He Knew that you would use in your daily life?

Preparation for married life.

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  • Will
  • 09-06-17

a bit on the long side

would have preferred a bullet point version of this instead of the several hours. listened at 2.4 speed.

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  • Larry
  • 07-09-16

Bravo!

Now to apply these biblical principles to my life. The truth is in this book.

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