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How to Be Miserable Audiobook

How to Be Miserable: 40 Strategies You Already Use

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Publisher's Summary

In How to Be Miserable, psychologist Randy Paterson outlines 40 specific behaviors and habits which - if followed - are sure to lead to a lifetime of unhappiness. On the other hand, if you do the opposite, you may yet join the ranks of happy people everywhere!

There are stacks upon stacks of self-help books that will promise you love, happiness, and a fabulous life. But how can you pinpoint the exact behaviors that cause you to be miserable in the first place? Sometimes when we're depressed, or just sad or unhappy, our instincts tell us to do the opposite of what we should - such as focusing on the negative, dwelling on what we can't change, isolating ourselves from friends and loved ones, eating junk food, or overindulging in alcohol. Sound familiar?

This tongue-in-cheek guide will help you identify the behaviors that make you unhappy and discover how you - and only you - are holding yourself back from a life of contentment. You'll learn to spot the tried-and-true traps that increase feelings of dissatisfaction, foster a lack of motivation, and detract from our quality of life - as well as ways to avoid them.

So, get ready to live the life you want (or not?). This fun, irreverent guide will light the way.

©2016 Randy J. Patterson (P)2016 Wetware Media

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    "Really helpful !"

    Loved it !! It really made me think about myself and what I do and made me realise that there are other ways of looking at certain situations.
    It has helped me a lot so with that I would definitely say it's worth a listen !
    In my opinion it is the last self help book you will ever need if understood and internalised correctly

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
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    Anonymous 09/06/2017
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    "Un-apologetic and utterly sarcastic"

    An endeavor towards improvement by means of constant contrasting in all 40 strategies. it is deliberately over-simplified to highlight the universal positions we take in life. It has hit home for me and it deserves further attention, It's so short and to the point I will be revisiting it. Dr. Randy J. Patterson uses a no holds barred and direct narration of his understanding, there is much to learn here.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
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    Aaron Forward Sussex, UK 05/06/2017
    Aaron Forward Sussex, UK 05/06/2017 Member Since 2017
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    "Good"

    Nice look at happiness from the other side. Great way to see what to work on next. Will definitely read again.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
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    Francesco De Paoli 01/06/2017
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    "A sarcastic and clever path towards awareness"

    An anti self-help book, or rather a book that cleverly show that rather than showing us how to reach happiness, redirect us towards minimising the ways we actively make our lives harder than they need to be: by sarcastically showing us in detail how to make ourselves miserable. Props to the hilariously serious narrator.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
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    "eye opening and fun."

    a good book, professional information given in an entertaining style by a dedicated reader, would recommend.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    Mr. J. Garside UK 11/11/2017
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    "An excellent guide on how to miserable!"

    I was amazed at just how many I already do. I've been wondering why I seem to be constantly miserable without much reason. Turns out the reason appears to be that I was treating the elements of this guide like a check list I must complete without even knowing I was doing it. I think I'm going to try and do a few less now.

    This self reflection was made easier by just how well written and narrated the book was. Really kept my attention and interest throughout.

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    astromads London 29/07/2017
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    "Awful"

    Awful narration
    Irritating voice, tries to make to many jokes with the narrative, not that funny.
    Repetitive and not anything new.
    I actually wondered when the actual book was going to start, listening to the blah blah at the beginning nearly sent me to sleep.

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    Tatiana 08/07/2017
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    "Not 40 strategies, just one idea repeated 40 times"
    Would you say that listening to this book was time well-spent? Why or why not?

    This book has an important theme, one that everyone should know, but that was it. One theme and it was applied to everything in an overly simplistic and convenient fashion.


    Would you recommend How to Be Miserable to your friends? Why or why not?

    I would only recommended it to someone who I think really needed to understand this and was very far away from understanding it. Possibly by hearing the same idea told in 40 different ways what they're doing, it might get through to them.


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    Matthew Peel 01/07/2017
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    "Good premise, but got a little tiresome"

    A good book, gave me food for thought about the things I do in life that just ultimately make me more miserable, they just overdid the Idea of it a little towards the end.

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    "Very worthwhile listen"

    Excellent insight into the ways we inadvertently make ourselves miserable, and how to avoid them (or continue if that's what you want).

    9 of 9 people found this review helpful
  • R. T. Whitney
    13/06/17
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    "A Delightful Kick In The Rear"

    I listened to this whole thing pretty much as fast as I could, and not just because of the genuinely charming narrator. The author does an excellent job of pointing out the best strategies for losing at life in a cheerful tongue-in-cheek style and with the backing of years of psychological experience and research.

    There were moments when I cringed as some of the methods described hit a little too close to home, but these were also the best moments. After all, if I am the cause of some of my own misery, I am also the solution.

    If, like me, you're someone who has struggled for years with mood disorders, this book won't cure you of any chemical imbalances or childhood traumas. It will, however, help you figure out how not to exacerbate these unavoidable troubles.

    This book definitely gets my recommendation.

    10 of 10 people found this review helpful
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    10/06/17
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    "Interesting"

    A somewhat unsettling look into a lot of the choices I make. Some parts were uncomfortable to listen to because it's like they were describing how I think / act, which I thought was unique to me. I have just listened through the whole book, and if nothing changes, I can say that this helped me be more aware of some of the harmful choices I make.

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Anonymous
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    "If you are interested, buy it"

    It was exactly what I was looking for. The irony alone sells it, and it has a lot of practical advises. I totally recommend it.

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Amazon Customer
    08/06/17
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    "absolutely great"

    this book is so good.. smart and funny.. it will make you realize how often you beat yourself up and show you how to avoid them.. I highly recommend it

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Yannick Provencher
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    "If you are depressed this is 100% for you"

    most of the time our misery is our own fault.
    good tempo easy to understand (i'm french)

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • M
    31/07/17
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    "Funny and informative"

    In the interest of full disclosure I am generally rather sceptical of self help/ self improvement books. I was pleasantly surprised. This book quickly and with a lot of wit goes through a list of forty ways we tend to sabotage ourselves and make our lives far worse than they have to be. I recommend it both if you want to change and if you just want a laugh.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Renaj K Forbes
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    "First audio book. Great experience"

    Easy to get into. narrator does awesome job at conveying a lengthy list. Good content

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Hector Lira
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    "Jesus Christ this book is too good..."

    The witty nature of the book as well as the stellar performance by the narrator made this super easy to finish and understand.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • Eddy B.
    10/07/17
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    "Great perspective"

    Loved how the book flipped everything in reverse of what most personal development does. A really good way to gain perspective. Has me looking at things in a new light.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful

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