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Summary

Men don't really have "commitment issues". At least, not in the way most women think men do. When a man tells you he has "commitment issues", there's a good chance that what he really means is he's not that interested in you and is just using you to pass time with until he meets someone "better".

But even though men don't really have commitment issues, they don't find it necessary or in their best interest to inform a woman when she's nothing more than a beautiful distraction, a way to earn the respect of his peers, or just a target to sharpen his seduction skills so that he'll be primed and ready when a "better" woman comes along.

In this audiobook, you'll get an inside look at how a man thinks and interacts with a woman when he's not that interested in her. It's extremely difficult for a man to waste your time and treat you like a short-term plaything without exhibiting certain unmistakable behaviors that clearly communicate that he's trying to keep you interested...but unclaimed.

In this audiobook, you're going to learn:

  • The seductive language men use when they want to discourage you from wanting a committed relationship
  • How quickly learning this one thing about him can tell you if he's "unequipped" to handle a serious relationship
  • How to avoid being confused by men who might love you tenderly but would never make you their girlfriend
  • How to stop losing sleep wondering "Does he like me?" and get him to either take you seriously or take a hike!
  • How observing this simple behavior reveals if he thinks you're "the one" or just "someone" to pass time with until he finds his Ms. Right
  • How to tell if a man is still secretly in love with his ex and is only one sad love song away from abandoning you for her
  • And much more....

Get started now, and discover how to tell if a man desperately wants you or if he's just not that into you.

©2015 Bruce Bryans (P)2015 Bruce Bryans and Dan Culhane

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Straight to the point

Not necessarily the stuff you want to hear but definitely the stuff you need to hear if your wasting time with guys. A must read.

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My mum should been told that!

I feel like I should know that since I wss in my 12 years old and that this type of subject should be taught as a compulsory subject at school! Why I haven't read this book before? I've probably had suffer much less in my relationships throughout the life.

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  • Pool Baby
  • 06-04-17

A High Quality Woman'S MUST READ

The best book iis a true enlightenment when entering the dating world. If you dont want to waste your precious heart and time on losers and players this is a must read first. THIS BOOK IS THE BEST INFORMATIVE GUIDE TO NAVIGATE THROUGH THE COMPLEX MANIPULATION MEN TRY ON THE HIGH QUALITY SINGLE FEMALE. Exactly what I was looking to learn from after several manipulative relationships. I laughed at the exact description Mr Bryans gave of men I thought had my best interest and clearly did not! Even the disappearing hospital scenerio, it happened to me! I will be reading his other books for sure. Thank you Mr Bruce Bryans for your guidance and sincerity keeping a high quality womans heart safe pure and happy in life.

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  • Candace L. Young
  • 07-08-16

loved it!

I have always thought this way; however, have always also secind guessed myself for one reason or another. ..be it friends and family viewpoints or just the negative fdeedback from the individual that I was with at any interval whwn ive dated just about evety man on that list for YEARS. Eventually, I did leave for my own happiness. ..this outline of male behaviors etc. really is comforting to hear that women arent crazy like men like to say. And it genuinely is better to break it off before it goes too far for both parties...its a guilt free way to be a practical and caring individual for yourself and anyone that may be impacted by the relationship that you get into. For me, thats my children. ..I refuse to introduce them to anyone who doesn't respect their mother...and now I can actually feel good about that. I gave the book 5 stars. It deserves it because it reminds us all of what we deserve and how to eliminate the things that we don't.

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  • Lorren A. Cotton
  • 21-03-16

Things you know but still need to hear!

At first I didn't like the reader, but he eventually he on me. Great book to validate your woman's intuition to catch the signs of trouble and trickery and really breaks down so many different duds out there. Also holds you accountable to loving YOURSELF enough to not take less than your worth...and not be a psycho :)

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 15-03-16

wow, wish i knew the signs years ago!

this will help me so much in the future - it also helps me confirm that my current boyfriend is not long term. ..

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  • Barbara Strong
  • 17-01-16

Refreshingly honest

It was a smartly written book from a man's perspective. I was enlightened in many areas about the way men think and wish I had had this book 7 months ago for my last narcissistic relationship. Great read and will assist me in halting the need to make up excuses for the poor behavior of many men. I am armed with great info for my next serious relationship. This time I am taking my time.

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  • Ty Azevedo
  • 17-11-16

Love!

It's great to hear things from a man'a point of view. I listened to this on Audible (because I'm lazy) & it was so worth the price. Going through a difficult breakup now with someone who just up and left when things are great. Getting advice from another man who can clearly open my eyes to things I didn't realize before is just what I needed. I'm about to buy his next book! Thank you Bruce!

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  • Linda H
  • 08-06-16

Hello!!!

What did you love best about He's Not That Interested, He's Just Passing Time?

The examples. They were not to generalized.

What insight do you think you’ll apply from He's Not That Interested, He's Just Passing Time?

Knowing when to be insistent. Staying or Going.

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  • Kanela Booker
  • 25-05-16

must have

loved it. very helpful and accurate. wish I could have listened to this sooner. takes a lot of guessing out of trying to figure out what he is thinking

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  • Andrea J. Cousins
  • 14-05-16

Excellent resource

Down to earth, straight to the facts advice. As a woman dating with a purpose, this book is very insightful to help me save time and tears.

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  • Leandra L. Martinez
  • 22-04-18

very educational

gave awesome advice I wish I knew ahead of time especially with what had recently happened to me recently here I plan and hope to see if I follow the guidelines in this book that it will help or it'll work only time will tell