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Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way

A Guide to Letting Go of the Sh*t that's Holding You Back

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Get The F*ck Out Your Own Way

By: MJ Harris
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About this listen

 It ain’t easy getting your shit together, but this book is the solution. And Tabitha Brown says, “you can trust him.”

MJ Harris has got a lot of “best friends”—over five million to be exact. His hilarious, straightforward, raw advice has made him the go-to person across social media for everything you need to know about getting your shit together.

MJ knows you need help—whether financial, spiritual, or in a relationship—but because you never learned how to properly handle the hurt and anger you’ve experienced in the past, it has become the emotional trash in the way of living your best life. Don’t nobody want that!

Whether it’s fixing your family issues, relationships, situationships, money, or frenemies, MJ offers sage advice about how to stop blocking yourself from bigger and better.

If any of this sounds like you, it’s best you start reading this book now!
  • You seek more fulfilling relationships
  • You’re ready to shake off shame about past mistakes and step into your power
  • You want to say “see ya” to the toxic people and emotional gut-punchers
  • Your “people pleaser” days are over and it’s time to learn how to effectively say no

This isn’t your gentle guide on breathing or journaling. MJ serves up no holds barred principles on how to navigate your emotions that will help you disrupt cycles of trauma, create boundaries, and transform into a goddess of emotional wholeness. Get the F*ck Out Your Own Way will help you learn how make better decisions that will set you on the right path for a happier emotional life once and for all.
 Love, Dating & Attraction Personal Development Personal Success Relationships Social Sciences Emotions Inspiring Witty Funny Comedy

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Critic reviews

“I’ve been blessed to witness the kindness and realness of MJ Harris. His honesty about his own life is the beautiful reason you can trust him to help you get yours together!"—Tabitha Brown
“Refreshingly authentic, occasionally outrageous, and always looking out for your best interests, MJ Harris has a bold vision for how much better your life will be if you could just get the f*ck out your own way. Lucky for you, he also has the wisdom and experience to help you do it, plus a gloriously unfiltered, potty-mouthed monologue that’ll keep you nodding and laughing along the way.”—Sarah Knight, New York Times bestselling author of Get Your Sh*t Together and Grow the F*ck Up
“MJ gets you together from a place of love! His no nonsense approach is want we need to get out of our own way!”—Michelle Williams, author of Checking In
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This is the best audio book I’ve ever taken the time and effort to devote my valuable time and energy to listen to. MJ was on point with everything and I felt as though he was talking to ME as I identified with most of his content. Thanks so much MJ!

The best audio book I’ve EVER listened to!

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This book hit home. It helped me understand so much about my family, my culture. Never occurred to me that the narcissist may have experienced trauma!
I have chosen peace by staying away. Painful when it’s a family member, but I feel free.

Bare Faced Honesty

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This is sooo damn good! M.J. offers so much practical advice on handling and processing difficult times, people and situations and, most importantly, makes you feel empowered to take accountability for your own stuff and not fall into the trap of victim mentality.
Thank you, M.J., for so much honesty, vulnerability and helpful advice!

This is worth your time and money.

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I loved every thing! it was pure thruth told in simplest ways possible. MJ Harris delivered the message in a glorious manner that left me wondering where he was all my life when I needed to hear this. but the timing can't be perfect. Bravooo! I'm a brand new person, thanks to this book. I have learnt more than I was expecting.
Thank Thank Thank you MJ. love you. ❤️

how to deal with toxic people in your life, and also how to stop robbing yourself pleasing other people

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I loved the authenticity and very raw emotions and practicality of this book - have already encouraged my friends to start reading it!! I drove from London to Wales listening to it and have re listened to it four times over !! Utterly brilliant

Outstanding!!!

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