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Holding the Man Audiobook

Holding the Man

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Publisher's Summary

The mid-'70s: at an all-boys Catholic school in Melbourne, Timothy Conigrave falls wildly and sweetly in love with the captain of the football team. So begins a relationship that weathers disapproval, separation and ultimately death.

With honesty and insight, Holding the Man explores the highs and lows of any partnership and the strength of heart both men have to find when they test positive for HIV. This is a book as refreshing and uplifting as it is moving - a funny and sad and celebratory account of growing up gay.

©2009 Timothy Conigrave (P)2016 Audible, Ltd

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    Andy Sargeant 28/06/2016
    Andy Sargeant 28/06/2016 Member Since 2015
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    "Powerful and Stunning"

    I watched the film first (Which I never normally do) and wanted to know more. This book is one of the most amazing, poignant emotional rollercoaster of a book. What an amazing author who was taken far to soon. This book is a MUST read, just remember the tissues.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Davidsmanson London 09/10/2017
    Davidsmanson London 09/10/2017 Member Since 2016
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    "Rollercoaster of emotion"

    I struggled at first with the narration of this book as there seemed to be a lisp and a lot of whistling at first, but once the story drags you in, you don't notice it as much!
    The book itself is amazingly well written and is a rollercoaster of emotion from start to finish, going through joys of relationships, erotica and horrible pain.
    It's not easy to pin down what the book is about, be that homosexuality, HIV, puberty, or just relationships with family and friends.
    I feel that thee are parts that have different feels, the first is the most amazingly well written story of puberty and discovering ones sexuality. This is a section that I believe any homosexual male will have various stories in common.
    The second part is more about being in a steady relationship and te difficulties that can occur, especially within the LGBT communities.
    And the last is the most difficult, about HIV and death.
    I made the mistake of listening to this book whilst driving, having to resist the tears along motorways. I will now have to buy and read the book as well as I am sure there are lots of section that would reveal themselves to me as time goes by.

    I look forward to relistening!

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Amazon Customer 13/08/2016
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    "Hard hitting and tearful"

    Gentle at first then harder. The story of living with AIDS and the impact it has in a couple.

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    08/09/16
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    "An Beautiful Love Story!"

    This is the only book the ever made me cry. A wonderful memoir of two people at the dawning of a new world and the harsh realities of opposition they faced. A true inspirational life long love story.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • papa825
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    21/10/16
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    "The most beautiful love story"

    I first saw the movie and was so moved that I wanted more of the intimate story of John & Tim.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Tina
    30/08/16
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    "Beautiful, heart-wrenching"

    Beautiful, heart-wrenching, candid, true. So glad Tim was able to finish this before he passed. The movie was wonderful, one of my lifetime favourites now, but it's better to read/hear the details of what was going on in Tim's mind. This story will linger in your mind.

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  • Amazon Customer
    19/08/16
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    "One of the most real and honest books I've read!"

    Tim and John's story is beautifully crafted. I was captivated by the narrative and transported to my own experience as a boy at so many places in the story. A tragic yet magical ending. I wish I had had the opportunity to know Tim and John, but thanks, Tim, for sharing so transparently your harsh yet beautiful experience. It is one I will definitely re-read. I saw the movie first and was pleased to find the book on Audible.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • Ag
    06/08/16
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    "I love this story, the way it was told."

    There's a type of rawness to it and very heartfelt. The ending was powerful and let me wondering about Tim.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • BrattyOz
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    "A beautiful book, sad but heartwarming."

    It is hard to explain how I feel after listening to this book. Definitely sad, but it is about the life of two men who fell in love in school, Catholic school, when love between two men was not accepted, and it brought forth emotions in me for the unfairness of life for those people who have had to endure growing up in a society where they were ostracized. It is now 2017 and Australia still does not allow gay marriage. Such a disgrace. This book was quite wonderful, written so well. I am Australian but have lived in the U.S. for almost 50 years. Hearing Tim’s accent and all the Aussie expressions made me quite homesick. I get the feeling the HIV/AIDS population in the ‘80s faired much better there than they did here, for which I am eternally grateful.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Sarah
    03/05/17
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    "Reader from NYC"

    I can not say what made me choose this particular book, however I can proudly say, I'm glad I did. Tim had me on a emotional roller-coaster. All these emotions I had inside of me, suddenly came to surface. I've always respected the LGBT community, now I have a new deep respect for all of LGBT. The bravery and awareness of everyday issues that isn't mentioned daily and should be. We are all human and we can't help who we love, we can only choose, how.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Pippin
    22/02/17
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    "Beautiful and heartbreaking"

    This is a wonderful example of a great love. The trials they went through because of the times, being gay and of course AIDS are deeply conveyed by the author. Interesting how Tim really portrayed himself as being insensitive and selfish at times.
    The narrator was very good also making you feel you were really listening to the characters talk not just a reading.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Carl
    Crescent City, CA, United States
    18/02/17
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    "I haven't been so moved in a long time."

    This love story in the time of AIDS is a real tearjerker, but worth every drop. It captures the joy of being and loving, building friendships and dealing with the issues we still have to face today. It is not maudlin like so many stories of the era, but rather a joyous celebration of finding and loving your soul mate. While the movie was very well done, the book, with this superb reading, is the best way to experience the story. Watch the movie afterwards, and learn more about the author. This is a great autobiographical story.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Charlotte, Nc
    13/01/17
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    "simply beautiful"

    A beautiful love story told in a almost perfect way. The reader did a wonderful job.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful

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