• Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma

  • By: Staci Haines
  • Narrated by: Traci Odom
  • Length: 10 hrs and 46 mins
  • Unabridged Audiobook
  • Release date: 13-12-11
  • Language: English
  • Publisher: Cleis Press
  • 3.5 out of 5 stars (2 ratings)

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Summary

Healing Sex is the encouraging, sex-positive guide for all women survivors of sexual assault - heterosexual, bisexual, lesbian, coupled, and single - who want to delight in their own sexuality. While most books on the topic broach sexuality to reassure women that it's all right to say "no" to unwanted sex, Healing Sex encourages women to learn how to say "yes" - to their own desires and on their own terms.

  • New! Somatics and Healing Trauma: A new introduction explores developments in the field of trauma and the role of the body as an essential place of change, learning, and transformation.
  • New! An updated bibliography and resource section.

©2007 Cleis Press (P)2011 Cleis Press

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  • kenneth
  • london, United Kingdom
  • 18-05-12

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'Healing Sex. A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma' by Staci Haines. A name change for this book is the second edition of 'The survivors guide to sex. How to have an empowered sex life after childhood sexual abuse.'

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  • Kendra Holliday
  • 12-04-16

Important topic

Where does Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

It's unfortunate this book needs to be written - it's too bad 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men will be sexually abused. But since we haven't figured out a way to break the cycle of abuse and stop the abusers from violating those younger and more vulnerable, we can all read books like this and heal from the abuse that is passed down with each generation.

This book offers critical information on healing and sex ed, but I found the way it was recorded to be very confusing. The book is edited so that the narrator reads in a rapid, seamless fashion; she shares info from the author, and then without pause launches into a personal account from someone interviewed. This breathless approach left me constantly confused, recalibrating and shaking my head. I kept getting wrong ideas and messed up context. Maybe this is an example of a book that doesn't translate well to audio, or perhaps they could have set it up differently.

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  • Pam
  • 08-03-13

Incredible Information

Would you consider the audio edition of Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma to be better than the print version?

In some ways it is better in audio because you can hear the words of others traumatized and it makes it more real and understandable that you are not alone. It is healthy to hear the variety of sexual words said out loud to remove some of the "taboo" from them.In other ways, I'd like the book. I'd like the list of references and I'd like to have the chapter guides to use as a check off sheet to provide structure and steps to move through trauma.I intend to buy the book too. It is an incredible resource.

What did you like best about this story?

Reality about norms, normalicy of sex and sexual terms and behaviors.

Which scene was your favorite?

NA

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Definately not. This is a lot of information to take it.

Any additional comments?

If you have had sexual trauma, believed that sex is dirty or wrong, digest this book!

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  • Jana
  • 31-03-12

Healing Sex

Enjoyed the book and thought the information was well thoughtout. I also thought the narration was top notch and well paced. Thank you.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 23-06-16

important and useful

I'm not a survivor of childhood abuse, but of an adult abusive relationship. My girlfriend recommended I read this, and I'm glad I did. It's sex positive, queer positive, and affirming. The voice of the narrator felt a little new-agey, but wasn't off putting. I appreciated the chapters about working through triggers and dissociating the most.

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  • Katia
  • 11-08-14

excellent

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

I have listened twice this book and I am going to buy a paper copy of it now.

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  • Naomi
  • 23-03-18

great for survivers who has already done alot of

What made the experience of listening to Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma the most enjoyable?

She dears to think courageously and hopefully

What did you like best about this story?

That she acknowledges abuse is done by all sorts of people male female, adults and children.
She second part on triggers is very good. As is the discussion of different sexual practices can have on survivors.

For example:
" Tantra practitioners also speak of the g-spot as an aria that holds sexual trauma. Many survivors have told me that working with the g-spot has been central in healing and releasing past sexual trauma. Some survivors report intense vulnerability, tears or rage when having their g-spot stimulated.

' I feel so vulnerable and opened up, I did not know she was stimulating my g-spot. I was not familiar with that at the time. It really sent me up to an other level, out their. Afterward I cried and shook and felt cleansed some how.'
Akaya"

Now where else have I found such accurate reflections on sex as a survivor.

What does Traci Odom bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

her enthusiasm

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  • Paul Timos
  • 03-08-16

Some good advice with obvious red flags!

She presents a lot of scientific studies so it seems convincing, but there are a lot of holes in her advice! She encourages SNM as healthy; as long as both adults consent. How is inflicting pain healthy? Why would someone need to have that kind of "power" to be aroused? Sounds similar to an abuser to me. If someone is drawn to that method, it's because they were treated that way and haven't truly healed. Additionally, I have never met or heard of a homosexual that wasn't sexualy abused (conscious or subconscious knowledge of the abuse). For a true healing, I would argue they would choose a natural state of sexual expression. Pornography and multiple partners is another red flag. If you can't be aroused by natural enjoyment and expression with yourself or a committed opposite sex partner you are still damaged. It is possible but it takes a true healing that this book does not offer. Thanks for listening.

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