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Divorcing and Healing from a Narcissist

Emotional and Narcissistic Abuse Recovery. Co-Parenting After an Emotionally Destructive Marriage and Splitting Up with a Toxic Ex
Narrated by: Trei Taylor
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A life-changing audiobook for anyone trapped in an unhealthy marriage or relationship

Divorce isn’t such a tragedy. A tragedy is staying in an unhappy marriage, teaching your children the wrong things about love. Nobody ever died of divorce.

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • Do you try to calmly talk with them about basic things, only for it to end up in an argument?
  • Were they once incredibly charming and said all the right things, but now they are mean, apathetic, or passive aggressive?
  • Have you tried to change yourself or your feelings, because you know they refuse to change, merely because they don’t think they have to?
  • Do you feel incredibly alone, like no one will understand, because to everyone else they are perfect?
  • Have you been cheated on yet somehow they make it your fault?
  • Or perhaps you have already broken up, yet you are constantly sucked back in by their begging, promises to change, or even threats?
  • Have you promised yourself that you will end the relationship, only to find yourself going back to them because you feel guilty, sorry for them, or afraid of being alone or good?

You are in a relationship with a narcissist, and if you haven’t figured it out already, they will never, ever change. It is difficult to get divorced or break up with a narcissist without someone who has been through the same experiences you have. Otherwise, you may make costly financial mistakes by hiring the wrong attorney or giving away your assets, all because you don’t know any better.

You can stay in the relationship and be unhappy, or you can choose to break free. But how do you actually break free? It is not easy, I know. Because I have been there. I was you.

What you need now:

  • Someone who has been through the same experiences you have and understands them from the inside.
  • Someone who has the knowledge, training, education, and experience working on himself and others to lead you through the emotional s--tstorm that breaking with a narcissist can create.

I can’t promise you that listening to this audiobook is going to be a "total cure", but I can promise that if you apply yourself dilligently, take notes, listen to the chapters, and follow all instructions to the letter with a tenacious resolve to get better, you will feel an instant decrease in anxiety within the first 24 hours and should see huge improvements within the first three days.

This is not hype, this is what my audience commonly report.

©2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert (P)2019 Dr. Theresa J. Covert

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This is a must listen to book.

This is a must listen to book. It is a book that will speak to anyone going through a difficult time (especially a break up). If you are looking for a make me feel good, tell me what I want to hear a book. This is not for you. It’s a tell me what I NEED to hear, truth be told book. First time listen to this author's work but she did an amazing job!

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This book has allowed me to finally let go

This book has allowed me to finally let go of stuff I was holding onto. Making myself feel responsible for things that were not my burden to carry! It feels good to be able to see that others have struggled with people just like my ex-husband. My only wish is, I had this book before divorcing him.

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Thank You author for this life saver book

Thank You author for this awesome book I've learned so much from listening to this book although I used to be in a toxic relationship I ended the relationship for almost 2 years now. Thank GOD.

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I've spent some time thinking about this review and how best to say it, because there is so much I could say about it that I don't have enough space here or time! I hope there is a precious woman out there that will read this review and purchase this book because she's dying emotionally.

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Perfect for dealing with the covert abuser....

All I kept saying to myself during my read of this book was "Holy Crap!!!" And I'm only through a quarter of the book!! I'm tempted to call my narc husband and tell him that someone wrote his biography, because this book reads like HIS PLAYBOOK!!

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I am glad to have found this book

I am glad to have found author books. They have helped me navigate my battle and I would highly recommend this book. She offers up advice and uses her personal stories so you do not feel alone in your journey.

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Both author and the book is so helpful

Both author books are so helpful when going through a divorce. A divorce from a narcissist is a different type of divorce and you must be prepared for the worst. the author helps you navigate this emotional and financial upheaval in your life. Advice from the Battlefield includes a lot of tips from those who are going through the process. Learn from those of us who have been there and are going through it. Help is available and author books will help you.

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Well organized and well explained.

Well organized, well explained, and perfect information and advice for someone going through a high conflict divorce. I wish that the author would have had this help when she was fighting her battle. Thank God she is sharing her strength with others so they do not have to battle alone. Blessings to those who are warriors and to those precious children who are currently hostages of our family court system.

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Recommended

I have listened to both author books cover to cover in three days. I find myself thinking "just like me!" Or "mine does that too!". Tragic how much these people hurt their spouses...but completely devastating how much they hurt their children. Thank you, author. Thank you for taking the risk to help others by showing everyone they are not alone...this is not normal...do not give up...this is wrong and needs to be fixed!

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Anyone divorcing a narcissist MUST listen to this

Anyone divorcing a narcissist MUST listen to this book. Clearly outlines what you need to do to protect yourself from someone who is spiteful and only thinks of himself. Excellent advice from someone who has been there!

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  • Sarah J Chandra
  • 22-10-19

Rambling Pointlessness

I'm a mental health therapist who's been in a relationship with a narcissist, but I couldn't even finish this book. The writer projects onto the reader the image of being the perfect, selfless empath, trapped in the web of a narcissist, a blameless and angelic victim of fate. She talks about karma, energies, and ancestral trauma that lives in our cells. She rambles around the points she's trying to make, as if she was just trying to find enough words to fill a book. and the reading is atrocious; several times the reader starts to say something, pauses, and then continues reading from the beginning of the sentence again, repeating what she just said so she made an error and didn't want to re-record over it. This book is a joke.

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  • Nicole
  • 02-12-19

Ok

Didn’t really give examples of the different types of narcissists and the reader had many many mistakes in the reading.

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  • Tara Hanson
  • 18-10-19

This book will help you find your strength.

I would highly recommend this book if you are going through a battle with someone who lives to try to make your life miserable. You need to know that you're not alone and you're not crazy. Many who are dealing with this kind of personality have received years of emotional abuse and feel weak. This story and the strength of God will help you find your strength.

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  • William Chavez
  • 18-10-19

Wow I was not aware of this issue before

Wow I was not aware of this issue and I am a divorce mediator, Id recommends this book to everyone who has ever deal with a person who is hard to deal with.

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  • Rebecca Albritton
  • 18-10-19

I felt like I was listening about my life.

I felt like I was listening about my life. While going through my divorce, I had no idea what my soon to be ex's issue was. I just thought he was an addict. About 1 month or 2 before our divorce, my mother finally figured out what his issue was, a personality disorder. I only wish I knew about this book prior to my divorce, but it still helps now. Knowing that I will be back in the courts in the future, getting advice as to what to do for next time, and best of all, knowing that there are other people in the world that are dealing with the same issue. It makes you feel a little saner while living what seems like, an insane life.

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  • Raymond Faulk
  • 17-10-19

This book is a great listen

author explains a narcissist and how they act within the courts. Everyone has a different story but this book helps with giving you some knowledge about what to expect when divorcing a narcissist. It talks briefly about the "No Contact" rule and PTSD, as well as being robotic and emotionless when dealing with your Narc face to face. This book is a great listen and the author is an inspiration. I suggest to anyone purchasing this book to like the page and become involved in hopes that these courts will stop failing our children and learn about Cluster B personality disorders!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 21-02-20

misleading title

I'm over half way through the book and this is more about getting into a relationship with a narcissist. it's not about divorcing a narcissist. its not about coparenting with a narcissist.

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  • RONAE
  • 23-01-20

Things I wished I knew before leaving my husband

This was a great informative book. I only wish I would have known all these things mentioned here. I would have done much better coping and the divorce process would have been more clear.

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  • D2007
  • 02-01-20

Magnific book.

This book gave me so much insight. It is a must have if you are dealing with narcisistic abuse.

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  • L. Staley
  • 04-11-19

Enlightening

Loved it. Learned so much about my narc, myself and how to move on.