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Dear Cousin: The Stalking of Susan Fensten

By: Ventureland
Narrated by: Susan Fensten
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Dear Cousin: The Stalking of Susan Fensten is the gripping true story of one woman's quest for long lost family. After the deaths of her sister and estranged father, Susan searches for relatives on an early online genealogy forum. When she meets cousins from her grandfather's other family, they're everything she'd hoped for—until it all goes to hell.

Susan’s dreams are shattered when she learns her relatives’ dangerous history, and she is bombarded with threatening messages and sexually explicit content. When dozens more people contact her, Susan realizes she's stumbled into a real-life horror movie.

As Susan desperately searches for the truth, she struggles to determine who's an ally and who wants her dead, and she falls down a digital rabbit hole of career criminals, predators, and sexual cultists in the Tri State area. But given the cyber law landscape in 2003, the police are unable to help Susan despite violent phone calls, and unwelcome visits.

Things change when a plot to abduct Susan and her boyfriend comes to light. The FBI steps in, and Susan is given hope when a skeptical agent takes on her case. What he discovers upends Susan's reality forever.

Twenty years after events took place, this real-life thriller from the dawn of the internet serves as a shocking cautionary tale about survival and perseverance against all odds. Hear Susan’s story in her own words, with contributions from expert guests, and the FBI Special Agent and Assistant US attorney on Susan’s case. This is the story of how one woman survived a two-year torture campaign when no one else would help.

Please be advised, this program contains graphic sexual imagery, and discussions of violence, and death. Some names have been changed to protect their subjects’ identities.

©2024 Ventureland, LLC (P)2024 Audible Originals, LLC.
Editors Select True Crime

Editorial Review

A cyberstalking tale that’s all in the family
Genealogy misadventures are a literary cottage industry—you know the ones: A DNA test reveals a beloved parent is not a biological relation, or is a serial killer. But what happened to Susan Fensten was murkier, creepier, and just plain weirder than that. Back in 2003, after her father’s death, Fensten went online looking for relatives who could shed light on his side of the family. When a distant cousin replied, she was thrilled. But it wasn’t long before other relations entered the picture, some combative, others deeply disturbing, and Susan found herself the victim of a terrifying stalking campaign that made her life a living hell. After the FBI got involved, what they found was so depraved they said it was “in a category by itself.” If you’ve heard of this case before, you may know Fensten’s chillingly titled memoir, You Have a Very Soft Voice, Susan. But this episodic production, in which those involved tell their story in an unpauseable documentary format, makes each wild twist feel larger than life. If you’re still thinking about the stalking cautionary tale of Baby Reindeer, this is your next listen. — Kat J., Audible Editor

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This was a rollercoaster! The betrayal this poor woman must have felt. A real eye opener for the early days of the internet and how little help there was.

Though provoking

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Cannot believe this story! I don’t know how Susan got through this. Incredibly strong and so glad she didn’t give up

What is wrong with people?!

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This reminds me of the “sweet Bobby” story. Surely only a psychopath is capable or inclined to behave in such a way. This story of cyberstalking was sadistic emotional terrorism. Fascinating but scary.

Utterly gripping

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I like that it was a true story and the real people. Gripping and a twist that you don't see coming. Thank goodness for her tenacity

shocking

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The victim did such a good job of narrating it just drew me in and I couldn’t stop listening

So interesting but freaky

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