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Leadership & Self-Deception Audiobook

Leadership & Self-Deception: Getting Out of the Box

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Publisher's Summary

Most personal and organizational problems are the result of a little-known phenomenon called "self-deception". We deceive ourselves into thinking we're doing the right thing for the right reason, but people won't follow a leader whose motives are selfish. The tricky thing is, we don't know that our motivation is flawed.

Through an entertaining and highly instructive story, this audiobook explains what self-deception is, how people get trapped in it, how it undermines relationships and organizational achievement, and - most importantly - the surprising way to solve it. A new edition of a customer favorite!

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    Huw Bowles 13/05/2015
    Huw Bowles 13/05/2015 Member Since 2014
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    "An excellent book given a second life on Audible"

    I've read this book and recommended it to a number of others. The Audible format gives it a new lease of life and I will be recommending it again.
    I don't often give 5 stars which for me should be reserved for things you rave about and recommend unprompted.
    Up there with 7 Habits in my book ;)

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Anthony 03/02/2015
    Anthony 03/02/2015 Member Since 2014
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    "Great format"

    The structure of a story helped keep you engaged on the points it's kept repeating. Would recommend to help change the way your deal with people.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Rachel 26/09/2016
    Rachel 26/09/2016
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    "Struggled to listen through attentively"

    I struggled to listen through the countless short stories of examples written in the book.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Abdul 13/04/2016
    Abdul 13/04/2016 Member Since 2016
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    "A Life Changing Masterpiece"

    This book got me out of my box. It made me rethink my relationships with many important people in my life.

    The narrator delivers the message in a warm and comforting tone, kind of like a caring father or grandfather.

    A must read for anyone!

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    A. L. Howell UK 15/01/2015
    A. L. Howell UK 15/01/2015 Member Since 2016

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    "My first Audible disappointment"
    What did you like best about Leadership & Self-Deception? What did you like least?

    I've recently got the bug for the fable style of business book having read or listened to all of Patrick Lencioni's books but in the case of Leadership and Self-Deception (The Arbinger Institute NOT Patrick Lencioni) there just isn't enough content to make a story from. The basic concept is sound but the authors have turned it into a Hollywood style tale of "everything will be wonderful in the end" and this book will solve all the world's problems courtesy of Tom (the world's slowest learner) and Bud (fortunately for Tom, the world's slowest teacher). They also dedicate the last 30 minutes or so telling you how fabulous the book is and how widely it's used, how many companies it's saved, how many marriages it's saved , and how aspiring CEOs would be foolish to contemplate not reading it before taking up their appointment. I found this especially irritating! The basic concept would make for a thought provoking essay but I don't see it as ground breaking or life changing; Empathy has been around for a long while!


    What was your reaction to the ending? (No spoilers please!)

    Relief!


    Would you listen to another book narrated by Peter Berkrot?

    Not in a hurry. His characters all seemed to be "Bud".


    Could you see Leadership & Self-Deception being made into a movie or a TV series? Who would the stars be?

    No, not really relevant for this sort of book.


    Any additional comments?

    I don't think so - sorry, this book just didn't do it for me.

    1 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    PeterJHills 24/08/2014
    PeterJHills 24/08/2014 Member Since 2012
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    "I don't normally review books but this one's great"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    Yes - directly applicable to your whole life


    What did you like best about this story?

    Easy to absorb the information


    Have you listened to any of Peter Berkrot’s other performances? How does this one compare?

    No


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    It probably helps to listen to it in a few sessions.


    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Michael 07/07/2014
    Michael 07/07/2014 Member Since 2016
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    "Thought Provoking and moves you to Action"
    What did you like most about Leadership & Self-Deception?

    Its is the way the message unfolded, Knowing that everyone has this problem.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of Leadership & Self-Deception?

    The realisation of the Problem


    Which character – as performed by Peter Berkrot – was your favourite?

    Buck


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Yes


    Any additional comments?

    This Book will move you to action.

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
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    Lina Brooks London 22/01/2016
    Lina Brooks London 22/01/2016 Member Since 2011
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    "Waste of time"
    What disappointed you about Leadership & Self-Deception?

    patronizing, idiotic story... just down right waste of time ... I most definitely would not recommend.... and to put the salt on to the wound.... at the end the toot their horn how good the book is and how many lives it changed... forget about competence and being humble, won't find it here


    0 of 1 people found this review helpful
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  • Treichel1225
    20/04/16
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    "Could have skipped this one..."

    I was excited to read this book although when I got started, it was really difficult to stay interested. Like others, I found it to be repetitive and drawn out. I am not a fan of the cheesy fictional story and how many hours it took to deliver a simple point.

    33 of 33 people found this review helpful
  • Misty
    24/01/17
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    "struggled"

    32 chapters to simply say think of others as human beings and treat them the way you would like to be treated.

    61 of 63 people found this review helpful
  • Diatomaceous Love
    Los Angeles, CA
    22/01/16
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    "Lots of repetition"

    I don't know how many time they repeat the same thing over and over again, but it's annoying. I kept waiting for them to get to the gold, and I was let down in the end. I also have taken many communications in business courses and read hundreds of self help books, so maybe that could be the cause for my opinion. Good news, if you're reading this, you want to better your life. If you skip to the end, you'll get the same info without wasting a bunch of time. Not as helpful as they claim to be. A book on communication skills would be more beneficial as a tool.

    36 of 37 people found this review helpful
  • Allen
    23/09/15
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    "Exactly what I needed."

    I have been stuck in the box with my wife and many of my employees at work for years. This has been my fault. I love what this book has taught me. I may hire the coach to hold me accountable so that I stay on this track.

    12 of 13 people found this review helpful
  • Ben
    Vancouver, BC, Canada
    12/07/13
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    "Like staring into a microscopic mirror."

    I heard a speaker say "if you are pointing your finger at someone else, you need to realize that three fingers are pointed back at yourself." That might be the best way to describe this book. It constantly turns it back on the reader to seriously examine their own problems and areas of self deception.

    This book was recommended to me from a speaker and author whose focus is leadership.

    I think it is a great listen for all developing leaders (which is hopefully every leader).

    15 of 17 people found this review helpful
  • LEONARDO
    12/09/15
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    "Should be a require read to every human"



    Great ideas. The only small problem is that the conversations in the book are a little repetitive, but it also helped memory and retention.

    19 of 22 people found this review helpful
  • David
    Visalia, CA, United States
    10/07/17
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    "Mixed Feelings On This One"
    Would you listen to Leadership & Self-Deception again? Why?

    Actually I have it slated to listen to again. The reason is that I don't think I got everything I needed to out of it. It has some great content in it, but for me it was hard to stay engaged. It seems to me that they wrote this after the style of The Richest Man in Babylon, but is not as compelling.


    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • Joseph Ivy
    USA
    13/10/12
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    "Good content, great presentation"
    Where does Leadership & Self-Deception rank among all the audiobooks you’ve listened to so far?

    This has been my favorite. Now, that is only out of four books, but I liked it a lot.


    Who was your favorite character and why?

    I didn't have a favorite Character.


    What does Peter Berkrot bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    He gives a particular voice and personality to the characters that I wouldn't have given them while reading the book.


    Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

    There were parts that tugged at my heart strings.


    Any additional comments?

    I would recommend this book for people who have negative attitudes about coworkers. I might even require it if I had that kind of power.

    15 of 19 people found this review helpful
  • Stephen Michael Gayle
    Camarillo, CA USA
    02/04/15
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    "A long winded advice on not being a jerk"

    The book consisted of a long-winded account on how not to be a jerk. Struggled to get through it.

    18 of 23 people found this review helpful
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    IVINS, UTAH, United States
    27/12/12
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    "Shut up and listen already"
    If you could sum up Leadership & Self-Deception in three words, what would they be?

    Quit killing relationships


    What did you like best about this story?

    Helped me see how lucky I am up to this point in my life to have any relationships at all!


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Yes.


    Any additional comments?

    There are no new skills taught here, just an eye opening experience of seeing people for their Human qualities and not their performance of associated rolls in life. Very, very good for not just leaders of organizations but anyone who interacts with others...ever!

    18 of 23 people found this review helpful

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