In 2011, when she was in her late 50s, beloved author and journalist Joyce Maynard met the first true partner she had ever known. Jim wore a rakish hat over a good head of hair; he asked real questions and gave real answers; he loved to see Joyce shine, both in and out of the spotlight; and he didn't mind the mess she made in the kitchen. He was not the husband Joyce imagined, but he quickly became the partner she had always dreamed of.
Before they met, both had believed they were done with marriage, and even after they married, Joyce resolved that no one could alter her course of determined independence. Then, just after their one-year wedding anniversary, her new husband was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. During the 19 months that followed, as they battled his illness together, she discovered for the first time what it really meant to be a couple - to be a true partner and to have one.
This is their story. Charting the course through their whirlwind romance, a marriage cut short by tragedy, and Joyce's return to singleness on new terms, The Best of Us is a heart-wrenching, ultimately life-affirming reflection on coming to understand true love through the experience of great loss.
I can't remember how I discovered this author but I'm so glad I did. She has a wonderful way of creating images in my mind.
This is a very sad book, obviously, but I love her writing so much and she didn't disappoint.
Actually she focused a lot more on life than death in this book.
She certainly made me cherish my husband in ways that I often forget in the every day business of living. I only wish she could have had more time with Jim.
I googled to see if I could find any of her wedding photos and I did. They looked radiant and so happy only to have a very abbreviated time together.
Still, she writes about it magnificently, as she always does, no matter what she's writing about.
I love her narration. I wouldn't want anyone else to express themselves the way she does.
I've missed very few of her books and will eventually get to all of them.
I love this lady.
3 of 3 people found this review helpful
This is a true love story. It's not a romance, although there certainly are many romantic moments, and it's not a tragedy, even though there is a great deal of sadness and loss. Anyone who has been in a committed, loving relationship will relate to this beautiful story of what it means to love another person without reservation. Beautifully read by the author, which makes the story even more powerful.
2 of 2 people found this review helpful
A moving testament to the human struggle to find love, and make sense of what happens throughout life. This memoir is personal to the author, but also to anyone with a heart. Read it, learn from it, and grow . Moving and powerful, gentle and true, it's a book you will not forget.
1 of 1 people found this review helpful
Oh my goodness does it ever end!
Reviews should say, for DEEP
Depression Please Read. Goes on and on and on! The worst ever! I even started jumping ahead chapters then many chapters. RUNNNNN
I actually heard Joyce on Dr. Drew Pinsky’s podcast. Something intrigued me to listen to the book. I enjoyed it. An eye opener to pancreatic cancer and how important every minute with a loved one really is.
I would recommend reading only the first 50% of the book.
The moment it starts describing an illness you can stop. There is nothing new, only depressing moments that comes with a terminal cancer.
I wanted to love this story because I LOVE love stories. But I didn’t. I found the author to be too self aggrandizing to be relatable. On a technical note, her overuse of certain words and phrases made roll my eyes many many times.
Wow, what an amazing and beautiful love story. Thank you, Joyce, for sharing it with us.
I love everything this author does. At times, this book could be horribly sad, but she writes with such honesty and integrity. The fact that she narrates this book, and at times it had to be hard, is nothing less then impressive.
I enjoyed this book. It brought tears to my eyes several times. You could feel the love the author had for her husband, and her tenacity to keep him alive.