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Beginner's BDSM Training Guide

Kinky BDSM Guide on How to Train Your Sub and Dom, How to Have Incredible Sex, Roleplay, Sex Games, Erotic Massage
Narrated by: Hailey Knoll
Length: 1 hr and 1 min
Categories: Erotica, Advice
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Summary

Are you or your partner curious about this lifestyle? 

Many people who came of age in the 21st century have been exposed to the concept of alternative lifestyles, so even if your partner has never heard of this stuff, you have...

The ultimate guide to BDSM to make your sex life richer and to make your partner beg you for more.

©2019 Alisa Held (P)2019 Alisa Held

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A basic introduction

I have only been in the community for about a year now so I’m no expert just to clarify. I would recommend this book to basic beginners as an overall idea of what bdsm is. It gives very good descriptions and explanations of the different activities participants can get involved with however I was rather concerned with the lack of safety warnings regarding different equipment and activities. A big example is it is dangerous to just use any candle for wax play, you need special low temperature candles to avoid 3rd degree burns and it should probably not be done by beginners or explaining the dangers of gaslighting a sub. Apart from this the book is easy to follow and understand though I initially assumed it would be about how a Dom can start training a sub not an intro guide to bdsm in general. But overall a good starter book.

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  • Thomas Conway
  • 14-03-19

The world of BDSM

I know a friend who does this and at first I was stunned by his role-playing with BDSM but after reading this book I finally understand the right procedures and techniques so that you and your partner will enjoy BDSM. A great book to read especially for people who wants to learn how to give pleasure to your SUB.

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  • Ronan Guinan
  • 13-03-19

Perfect intro

A great introduction to BDSM, listened with my husband and we both enjoyed it a lot and will be trying out new things in the near future

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  • Elodia Lautenschlage
  • 05-03-19

5/5

Great narration and the guide was top notch and perfect for both beginners and experienced couples. Well worth the credit spent

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  • Andrew C. Patrick
  • 18-03-19

For beginners

A good basic introduction. I feel like the information was well known with a few different tips provided but overall I think it was a starter guide mainly suited for beginners.

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  • Johan Alex
  • 16-03-19

Pretty good

As a Dom in the lifestyle for about 10 years, I feel this short overview contains pretty good info for the new Dom. I have read many "BDSM training" books some are good, others are trash. This book is probably the best of the shorter books. I definitely like the way there are suggested ideas for protocol without a "this is the it has to be" attitude.

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  • Jermaine Carbone
  • 16-03-19

first timer

Im a first timer to bdsm and the guide was really helpful. Listened to it with my wife of 10 years. Thank you x

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  • Megan Lee
  • 14-03-19

Great audiobook

A very detailed guide to BDSM for someone as new to the subject as me. Will definitely spice up my sex life once and for all! Great job, Alisa.

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  • Anne Ray
  • 13-03-19

Cool audiobook

The audiobook by Alisa Held was much better than I was expecting. Went into great detail on what's best for you and your partner. You could tell it was written by someone who has a lot of experience in BDSM. Thank you

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  • Juanita Vazquez
  • 18-03-19

Great guide

Fun and exciting way to introduce new sexual experiences. The narration was well done as was the production. The information was jam packed into an hour audiobook. A superb book overall

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  • Stacie Dobbs
  • 19-03-19

newbie

loved it . Very relaxed listening to audible. will get another by author. Just new