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Your Brain on Love: The Neurobiology of Healthy Relationships

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Publisher's Summary

"Understand your brain, improve your relationships." That's what Stan Tatkin has learned from his leading-edge work as a researcher and couples therapist. In this complete audio learning program, he merges current insights from neurobiology and attachment theory to help us shift out of conflict and into deeper and more loving connections. Listeners first learn to identify attachment styles - the patterns of intimacy that begin in our earliest years - both in ourselves and in those around us. Then Tatkin guides us through his proven principles and pratices for biliding enduring security and commitment between couples, family members, and othes that we love.

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  • Mona
    WOODLAND HILLS, CA, United States
    22/08/13
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    "A must read (and reread for the rest of your life!"

    I'm so happy I got this book because the sample clip is horrible. It says absolutely nothing about the content of the book. I heard about this book from someone on the radio and it sounded so interesting that I looked up the author Stan Tatkin on YouTube. He has a short video on a homecoming exercise that gives you a little taste of what this book is about.

    I have learned more about myself and why I act the way that I do in relationships, from this book than from all the counselors and other books I've read, all put together.

    10 of 10 people found this review helpful
  • Martin
    31/08/14
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    "Relationship Essential"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    This book is essential reading for anyone in a relationship whether it's going well or not or how new the relationship is. In fact, I believe everyone would benefit from reading this book.


    What did you learn from Your Brain on Love that you would use in your daily life?

    I thought I was good at relationships but this book and the attachment theory model has broken down all of my old beliefs and I'm now installing new ones. I've had a paradigm shift and my priorities (values, if you will) have been re-organised. I now see that the relationship is paramount, not the individual. Two people together in a secure functioning relationship can achieve much more with their lives than if they were to operate independently. I will apply what I have learned here and with further study I will become a better man and help my partner feel understood and secure in my love.


    9 of 9 people found this review helpful
  • Dennis
    Hot Springs, NC, United States
    29/04/14
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    "Fantastic"
    Any additional comments?

    Stan Tatkin's presentation style grew on me as I listened. He presents information on relationships from several scientific sources in a compelling, engaging and personable way. I listened twice back to back. This is a great resourse for any couple.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
  • Fnavacerrada
    02/01/14
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    "I loved it"

    It's more psychology than it is neurology but the character types he describes and the interactions between them were very accurate and useful for me

    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • JD
    New Jersey
    21/12/13
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    "Life Changing Book"
    Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

    For some of us, a stable long-term relationship eludes us and we often wonder why. As a 30 something year old who never had a LTR, I had to come to terms with my "Island" or "Avoidant" attachment style. This book provides you with a slap in the face and you realize, relationships are messy, people are annoying but they can also be rewarding. In this book more than any other book, you learn the acceptance of your partner and realize you are responsible their happiness and well being as much as he or she is responsible for yours. For someone like me who is very guarded and often expect others to rely on themselves this was truly a paradigm shift in the way I looked at human relationships, not just romantic relationships.


    What other book might you compare Your Brain on Love to and why?

    I listen to "Attached: Thew New Science of Adult Attachment And How It Can Help you Find- And Keep Love" by Rachel Heller and Amir Levine. That was a good book and if you have sometime, I would recommend listening or reading that book first to get a good understanding of Adult Attachment Style. However "Your Brian on Love" really for me knocks it out of the park by giving you a solid framework and tool to make any relationship where both parties are interested in making it work the instructions to have a secure stable relationship.


    What does Stan Tatkin bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    The author Stan Tatkin read the book. At first his voice can come off as irritating because of his accent but I quickly warmed up to it. His voice has a certain warmth that envelopes you. The way he read he book made me feel like we were friends and he was giving some sage wisdom on a nice summer evening on the porch.


    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
  • Mireille
    Ste-Foy, Quebec, Canada
    06/12/15
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    "Perfect for me! And so many of us..."

    This book is all I needed it to be. It puts into words many thoughts and feelings and experiences I had and have. Based on sound neuroscience and biology I can relate to, it explained to me attachment styles in a thorough but yet simple way and wrapped everything together which was very enlightening to me. The author / narrator as a very pleasant voice and reading style. Thank you so very much for this gift of a book ! Highly recommend it to anyone interested in learning about him or herself as an individual as well as partner.

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • Jenifer
    06/04/15
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    "Interesting concepts but it gets a little silly"

    This book had some interesting science behind it. The first half focuses on some pretty silly and overly simplified terminology. Are you an island or a submarine or an airplane or a wave?? Dr. Tatkin explains that few people fit into just one category. Even as heuristic devices, they don't really hold water. The second half of the book is worth the wait though. It gives some real insight into ways that the average person can create and maintain a "couple bubble".

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • Laila
    Springfield Gardens, New York, United States
    25/08/13
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    "Definitely Worth a Read!"
    What did you like about this audiobook?

    I liked how it was so simple and easy to follow, and also based on studies of logic and neurobiology rather than all the emotional stuff only.


    How has the book increased your interest in the subject matter?

    Definitely, I'm willing to read more about relationships from a more practical side, and to look into how people think in general.


    Does the author present information in a way that is interesting and insightful, and if so, how does he achieve this?

    Yes, it's easy, and very simple, so it keeps one interested the whole time.


    What did you find wrong about the narrator's performance?

    Nothing bothered me.


    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
  • Amazon Customer
    01/10/15
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    "Great content with bizarre chapter intros"

    Great content delivered in a conversational style that is very enjoyable and accessible.

    Why on earth they broke the friendly stride of the audiobook with what I came to call the "bad zen phone sex operator" I'll never understand.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
  • timothy
    SAINT PAUL, MN, United States
    20/12/13
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    "Awesome!"
    What made the experience of listening to Your Brain on Love the most enjoyable?

    This book helped me understand so much more about my life, love, and what I can and cant' do. It was fun to listen to and easy to follow.


    What about Stan Tatkin’s performance did you like?

    Perfect cadence, very clear, super easy to understand. I listened to most parts twice.


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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