There are a number of good women in society who would make any man a loving wife, a devoted long-term girlfriend, or an easy-to-get-along-with casual sex partner.
Then there are other women in society who are only looking to take advantage of naïve and sexually desperate men for their own egotistical and self-serving objectives.
In his second audiobook release, The Possibility of Sex: How Naïve and Lustful Men are Manipulated by Women Regularly, book author Alan Roger Currie once again highlights the fact that when a man expresses his romantic or sexual desires, interests and intentions to women in a very cautious, vague, ambiguous, or "beat-around-the-bush" manner, he potentially opens himself up to be misled and taken advantage of by women who are shrewd, savvy, highly experienced manipulators of men.
In Part One of the audiobook, Currie discusses women he refers to as Timewasters, which are women who are willing to initially, temporarily, or even indefinitely give targeted men the misleading impression that they have some degree of genuine interest in sharing that man's company in a romantic or purely sexual manner, but in reality, these women seek nothing other than to be flattered, entertained, or spoiled with financial (and non-financial) 'favors' and materialistic gifts.
In Part Two of the audiobook, Currie describes in detail at least five types of 'No Good Women' that he feels all men should totally avoid entering into any type of long-term romantic or sexual relationship with: Gold Diggers, Man Thieves, Drama Queens, Misandrists, Liars and Cheaters
Currie's first audiobook release was Mode One: Let the Women Know What You're REALLY Thinking.
(Warning: Some chapters in this audiobook include explicit language)
©2012 Alan Roger Currie (P)2014 Alan Roger Currie
Women have been manipulating men from the beginning of time. But the question that remains unanswered for many is why do women manipulate men? Why is manipulation such a handy tool for women to use when it comes to dealing with their male counterpart?
The goal of this book is to get every reader to look at manipulation holistically, and then make a decision as to how they feel about it. It is not a do it yourself book on manipulation nor is it a lambasting of women for using their manipulation skills. It is a journey of introspection. Whether you are male or female, manipulator or manipulated, I know that you have given this subject some thought. Your perceptions may change as you read it. Throughout the book we look at how manipulation is achieved and why it was needed by women in the past. We look at whether it has a place in modern society, and what men's role has been in its use.
It is partly a historical walk with women, partly looking into their psyche's to see where manipulation is embedded in them. As a woman, it will give you a good view into why women use manipulation; why it has been used down the centuries and where it is still used today. As a man, it will give you insight into this powerful tool that you feel is used against you. Perhaps, after reading this book, your perceptions will have changed and you will have a kinder view towards why women use manipulation.
I've known about Alan Roger Currie for some time and have owned the eBook version of his first work, 'Mode One' for years. However, listening to the audio version of that book and this one are essential to understanding his seduction philosophy. I also highly recommend the third book in this trilogy, which will complete your understanding of what Mode One really means, with practical examples. Having read these books, many guys seem to find themselves either in denial or having something similar to a Matrix-like awakening. If you find yourself in the former camp, I recommend testing ARC's philosophy out by acting as if what he says is true for a few weeks and seeing if your success with women improves. Best wishes wishes.
Very good book from one of only 2 recognised direct approach guys there are. I've met Alan in London 5 years ago and we talked over chicken wings in his flat in Notting Hill.
This was the hardest book in the series for me to get through, namely because it was the painful truth that I needed, but did not want to hear. I persevered only because it's an important part of seduction education. Men are duped and seduced by a number of tricksters, but most often fellas are playing themselves. Go through this book like it's a dating health & safety course. Always wear your psychological protection and stear clear from the trap of the Possibility of Sex.
"Alan should have a PhD in The Psychology of Women!"
In Alan's first audiobook, he highlighted the weaknesses of men's behavior toward women, and he explained just how dishonest and manipulative men can be toward women. In his second audiobook, he turns the tables and describes in detail how dishonest, misleading and manipulative women can be toward men. Being a woman myself, I know firsthand that there are really good women looking for a good man, and there are really scandalous women out here looking to take advantage of naive, unsuspecting men.
Alan points out that in the same way many men will 'pretend' to want nothing more than platonic friendship from a woman, when in reality they want to have sex with that woman, many women do just the opposite. They will pretend like have an interest in having sex with a man (either in the context of relationship or casually), but in reality, they just want to collect a high number of male platonic friends. I believe if a woman only wants to be 'just friends' with a man, she should let a man know that from the very beginning.
Just like Alan's first audiobook, Mode One, my only minor criticism would be that he uses quite a bit of X-rated language and profanity (but I am used to it now!). My compliment for Alan is that he never minces words or holds back on telling the truth about both men's behavior and women's behavior as it relates to dating and relationships. He is a bold truth-teller. I do not think men or women under the age of 17 should be listening to Alan's audiobooks though.
Like Alan's first audiobook, most of the content is definitely geared toward educating men, but that said, it was also an enlightening and entertaining listen for me as a woman as well. If nothing else, it made me think more objectively about just how manipulative women can be with men. Most women I know have the tendency to only concentrate on the undesirable behavior of men, but the reality is, members of both sexes have strengths and weaknesses in their character and behavior.
Not only would I agree that the average man would be turned off by a woman who is a 'Timewaster,' a Gold Digger, a Man Thief, a Drama Queen, a Misandrist, or a Liar / Cheater, but I believe most good women also hate other women who fall into these categories as well!! (bad women make it more
"Don't let manipulative women waste your time!"
Looking back to my late teens, I can pretty much say that my first romantically frustrating experience in life was exactly with a type of girl who was a Timewaster. I allowed both my time and money be wasted while going out with her only to find out later that she didn’t even want to kiss me or have sex with me when I tried escalating and, on top of that, with her words she was very vague and ambiguous, only offering me “the possibility of sex”. Back then I felt it was enough, and during my next call to her I just asked one question “When are we having sex?”. She kept playing head-games. I hung up on her and never pursued her company again in a romantic or sexual manner. It must have been my intuition that made me identify her as a “big time game player”.
Many years later I learned about Alan Roger Currie’s books. I decided to read all of them. And while reading to Alan’s original Kindle e-book “The possibility of sex”, I clearly remembered the time when I was hanging out with that girl: I was “hoping to get laid”, I was “courting” her because I thought (and I had been told many times) that girls need to be courted, and that every man is supposed to know how to court women in a right way. A question that comes up is this “What is left to us, men? What are we left with? With the hope that our courting will lead to a desirable result someday? With the possibility of sex?”
Questions like this really show that, instead of knowing the outdated (and often ineffective) ‘courting skills’, we should…we HAVE TO know how to weed out women who are there to waste our valuable time and our money. We should also be able to see through any manipulative head games women often play, whether it’s to test a guy or to pull his strings. And by weeding out such women (and let them deal with other men who are willing to accept this kind of behavior) we, actually, make room in our lives for sincere, genuine and loving female romantic and sexual companions…for a short encounter or for a happy long term relationship. And this is what Alan’s book is about! It is to give us, men, the ammunition to be these secure and strong men.
Even though I read the e-book Kindle version of “The possibility of sex”, I’ve enjoyed the audiobook ‘delivery’ more. Not only because I’m an auditory person, but also because I can feel the author’s passion and commitment to do his best to inspire us, men, to learn the difference between sincere and manipulative women. I once had an hour long video consultation with Alan and, more than half of the time we spent talking, he helped me identify Timewasters among women I was interested in. After the consultation I thought “I wish every man could have this kind of knowledge on his hands”. And here it is: 6+ hours of the author giving you a “personal consultation” and giving you the knowledge you will HARDLY ever get anywhere else (sincere women are usually not aware of all manipulative strategies, so they look surprised when you’re discussing it with them; manipulative women will usually give you the IMPRESSION that they don’t know what the heck you’re talking about..”Manipulation…huh?”).
Other than the 1st part of the book (the first part mostly focuses on the 4 types of Timewasters), I found particularly interesting the chapter on “Man thieves”: I’ve always thought women competing for the opportunity to win a guy over is a good thing, but, as it turns out, getting involved with a woman who “enjoys stealing other women’s men way too much” can be a really bad decision.
I would recommend this book to any man. And I’ve given advice to my friends on how to identify Timewasters and other No-Good women in their dating lives.
"Great book and must read for all heterosexual men."
Yes, I definitely recommend this book to all my male friends. It warns of the dangers of being sexually indirect with potential female love interests. Mr. Currie explains how women he calls timewasters, use sex as tool of coaxing indirect nice stupid men into being male platonic ego boosters and atm machines. "Mode one" sexually direct ballsy men cut off the Medusa's head of manipulation by being so direct and most times forcing even female manipulators into saying yes or no to sex or dating. Alan also breaks downs the myth of society that men are hornier than women. Complete goddamn bullshit. Women are conditioned by our christian corporate capitalist nightmare modern society to want something in return for their vaginas which are horny anyway for attractive men. Similar to how an illegal drug dealer would never give a addict free drugs regularly. Women withhold sex to make it a rare commodity. Alan gives us the red pill like Morpheus from the Cult film the Matrix and wakes us men the hell up. Great book.
Alan's real life examples of female teasers and the sexual duality of women were entertaining and educational. This book is words to the wise.
I read his first book and his magnum opus, "Mode one' but this is the first audiobook of his I have listened to. Alan has an excellent speaking voice.
Although I'm still extremely young and inexperienced, I will now always use a mode one approach with girls I am attracted to and avoid timewasters. Mode one is always great for "breaking down" pretenders (girls interested in a man sexually but pretending not to be to save face). I can't wait to listen to Alan's next book called "Say it again".
"Now I Understand Women! Thank you!!!"
The most enjoyable part of this book was the simple and clear way the author describes women's behavior. After listening to this audio book, I feel like I have 10 years of extra experience with women! I now know exactly how to deal with every situation so that I am never mislead nor am I having my time wasted by women who aren't genuinely interest in me. This book is literally a life saver in terms of my love life.
Mode One By Alan Roger Currie because it lays the foundation for the book "The Possibility of Sex"
Alan Roger Currie
Always being upfront and straightforward with women takes away all their power to manipulate me.
This is a book every man should read. It felt as though Alan was sitting in the same room as me; talking to me man to man. With the wisdom shared in this amazing audiobook, many men will avoid having their hearts broken - and this is great because there will be a lot less misogynistic men in the world. This book is truly a treasure.
"another raw and uncut classic"
excellent book that gives you the tools to chose wisely when avoiding the bad women.
"Worth the Purchase!"
I wish I had this knowledge years ago. I could've avoided a lot of time wasters.
"Much better than anticipated"
I would highly recommend this book to any men seeking to learn how women think.
i find that a lot of what he talks about is very interesting and when i look back at certain experiences ive had with women fit the bill. thank you for the knowledge given!
"THE REAL DEAL"
The Ultimate Timesaver and Guide for Beta-Type Men!! This is the hardcore truth right here.
"Man, I can not even emphasize in words how TRUE and REAL this book is!"
I rate this book a 10/10. I enjoyed listening to this book because I am a big fan of Alan Roger Currie's work, and this one gave me more information, advice, and real talk about women who are wasting my time. If you are new to ARC's books, this one in particular emphasizes women who can be put in the category of timewasters. His other books emphasize pretenders, the mode one behavior, and stimulating a women's pu**y via aural sex.
There are a lot of men out there who NEED NEED NEED a man like Alan Roger Currie in their life! He is like the alpha male figure that could teach sound, honest, and bold principles to men when it comes to talking to women and social interactions with women and interpersonal skills!
All MEN who are wealthy and are tired of being used by women, paying for sex, or tired of flattering women in hopes of getting sex from them MUST read this.
All women must read this to learn to be honest!
I highly recommend you read this book and take notes. The book talks about women to avoid, how to screen out a time waster, how to deal with time wasters, and how to identify the different types of time wasters. Also, there are other general topics such as gold diggers, tricks, suckers, and other terms that are very good to read about and become a better man. You have nothing to lose, but your old self. Thank you for another wonderful book! -One of your biggest fans, Erfan Zahraei.
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