Simple strategies for a happier home and more cooperative kids. For children aged 3-13. Finally, a revolutionary programme that gives you simple steps to take the daily battles out of parenting.
These strategies resolve one of parents' biggest frustrations: getting your children to listen and do what you ask, the first time you ask. When children are at their best, it is easy to get along with them and enjoy them. However, when they are defiant, argumentative or disrespectful, it is easy to get wound up, to argue back, threaten, nag or shout. If this sounds like the situation in your home too much of the time, then Calmer, Easier, Happier Parenting is for you. When you use these strategies, not only will your children become more cooperative, but also more confident, self-reliant and considerate. Learning new skills like Preparing for Success, Descriptive Praise and the Never Ask Twice method can transform your relationship with your child in a short space of time and help bring the joy back into family life.
Full of examples and real stories from parents, this book gives you clear step-by-step guidance to achieve Calmer, Easier, Happier Parenting. These strategies work!
©2012 Noël Janis-Norton (P)2012 Hodder & Stoughton
"It has taken the stress out of parenting - I'll probably live 10 years longer." (Helena Bonham Carter)
I was very sceptical when I chose this book, nothing could work on my kids (six and four). They never listened until someone shouted or they had had favourite toys thrown away. This never left anyone feeling good afterwards.
After listening to the first part of the book I could understand why we were failing. I convinced my wife that we should give this a try and we are starting to see the benefits. It is very hard to wait between chapters, but after not waiting the first time, can appreciate why.
This is not an overnight cure, you have to change to get your kids to change, but it is for the better, have patience, you need it with kids anyway!
I enjoyed listening to this audiobook. It's nice to hear it read by the author; I think that adds something, and noelle has a very calming reading voice.
I would say that the book has plenty going for it. It prevents some interesting ideas. I certainly think the descriptive praise is worth doing. It's worth remembering, though, that parenting is not one-size-fits-all. I don't like the idea of 'rules' since we all know that if we are told we must not do something, then that's the first thing we want to do.
All in all, it's worth reading/listening to, but remember to personalise the approach for your own precious ones.
As a foster carer I have found this book follows along the lines of our training and is not only useful but supports and helps to refresh the importance of staying calm.
I found the strategies really helpful. It has allowed me to communicate with my son more effectively. It also made me realise that a lot of the problems we've had at home are universal to all parents. Have listened to this again and again referring back to relevant chapters. It is a very helpful reference guide.
I really enjoyed the tone of the author and more importantly I like the methods taught and I found them easy to implement.
The book has made parenting far more enjoyable and for that I am extremely grateful to the author for the fantastic work she has done in this book.
For me the pace of the book is just right, I enjoyed listening to it throughout and I highly recommend this book to any parent like me who has struggled with being too soft and allowing the children to be in charge a lot of the time making some days a real battle to get the children dressed etc
I HAVE READ QUITE A FEW PARENTING BOOKS IN MY TIME BUT THIS IS BY FAR THE BEST! REAL SITUATIONS, REAL SOLUTIONS, TOTALLY DO-ABLE AND IMMEDIATE RESULTS. FANTASTIC LISTEN THAT I WILL REFER TO OFTEN. CAN'T SING THE PRAISES OF THIS BOOK ENOUGH. PLEASE TRY IT FOR YOURSELF YOU WILL NOT BE DISAPPOINTED.
I'm only 2 chapters in and already achieving massive improvements in my interaction with the kids, it just a matter of days I got my little one into a new bed time routine and she no longer makes a fuss about cleaning her teeth etc and the bed time routine is a real pleasure for her as she feels all grown up:-) My wife can't believe it!
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This book IS wordy and repetitive and it has to be so, but it's worth it, and IT WORKS! It will change your attitude on how you deal with your "difficult" child. The child's behaviour will improve, and you will be amazed. Implementing the strategies in the book takes constant energy, determination, and consistency, not to mention on-going re-reading to refresh your tactics. As granny to an intense, emotional child, I have seen great changes and improvements. All other "how to" books have been thrown away. Use it, and stick with it, it's a sanity saver!
This audiobook is read by the author. She has a calm Scandanavian voice. The book is slow going however and whilst the advice contained in it is sound and practical, it does not really lend itself to the quick reference of a book. Everything is explained step by step but It got very repetitive at times, which is partly the idea, in order to learn the techniques.
I get the feeling that if you followed this to the letter your life would be calmer and happier as a parent so it does what it says on the title, but the techniques are time consuming and a lot of hard work. This will ultimately work to your advantage as the author advises, but beer pared to go in it for the long haul. The chapter on never ask twice is the best advice I have heard on the subject of getting your kids to listen to you and do it first time! It does work, which is pretty amazing. The key is consistency, as with any of these parenting techniques.
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